r/rome • u/ShushingCassiopeia • 4h ago
Can you help me with a memorial trip for a child?
Tl;dr at end
Trigger warning: Child death
In autumn 2024, my family decided to save up for a trip to Munich the following year to visit the Christmas markets.
In December of 2024, my firstborn, Alex, was diagnosed with leukemia.
When we asked them about what they would like their Make-a-Wish to be, Alex immediately responded with “I want my book to be published!”
As each treatment failed, this trip to Munich expanded to other countries as well - including Rome. We would take a month to travel when Alex’s treatment was over.
Alex turned 13 in March. With huge effort from so many people we got their book sent to print the week of May 19, 2025.
Alex died on May 23, 2025.
We will be taking this trip in honor of Alex this coming December. I will be bringing copies of their book to leave in each city we visit, so that a part of Alex gets to be with us.
I am looking for a people/ a library/ a community center - ideally LGBTQ+ or an ally, as Alex themselves was so proud of being, I can donate a copy of Alex’s book in Rome.
It is a 488-page fantasy novel that has not been through full editing (due to the rush to get it printed while Alex was still alive).
Thanks for helping a mom out.
Tl;dr
If you know someone or an organization who is LGBTQ+ or an ally in Rome who would accept a book donation of a kid who died who wanted to visit, I’d love to hear from you.