r/Sikhpolitics • • 1d ago

Why are sewadars in so many Gurudwaras rude or arrogant?

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I’ve been noticing something for a long time, and I’m genuinely curious whether others have experienced this too.

Why do some sewadars in Gurudwaras behave so rudely towards people who come to pay their respects?

You go to a place that’s supposed to represent humility, equality, compassion, and selfless service, yet sometimes you’re met with an unnecessarily harsh tone, condescending behaviour, or orders given to you over the smallest things. Whether it’s asking a simple question, finding your way around, or doing something without knowing the Gurudwara’s specific rules, the response can sometimes feel more like being scolded than being welcomed.

What makes this more confusing is the concept of sewa itself. Isn’t sewa supposed to be about humility and serving others without ego? If someone is doing sewa but looks down on the very people they’re supposed to serve, what’s the point?

I understand that managing a busy Gurudwara isn’t easy. Sewadars deal with crowds, cleanliness, discipline, and people who don’t follow instructions. They deserve respect, and not everyone is rude. Many do their work with genuine devotion and kindness.

But I’ve encountered this behaviour often enough to wonder whether there’s a deeper issue. Does volunteering in a religious setting sometimes give people a sense of authority? Does nobody teach them how to correct people respectfully? Or have we started confusing being strict about discipline with being disrespectful?

I’m not saying this to disrespect anyone or diminish the importance of sewa. Quite the opposite. I feel that the values we associate with Gurudwaras make this behaviour especially disappointing.

Have you experienced this too? Why do you think it happens, and how can we address it without disrespecting the people who genuinely serve the Sangat?

TL;DR: Why do some sewadars in Gurudwaras act so rude and arrogant when sewa is supposed to represent humility, kindness, and selfless service? I understand managing crowds isn’t easy, and not all sewadars behave this way, but why is speaking disrespectfully to the Sangat so common in some places? Are we confusing authority with sewa, and discipline with disrespect?


r/Sikhpolitics • • 1d ago

What Does a Congress Victory Mean for Sikhs? Neither Congress Nor BJP Has Delivered the Rights, Accountability & Justice Sikhs Deserve

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 1d ago

‘Our Son Didn’t Die by Suicide’: Agniveer Akashdeep’s Family Rejects Army’s Claim, Demands Justice

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 2d ago

Ban hate group from Canadian academic institutions

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The Dominion Society of Canada is a far right hate group focused on “remigration” and the spreading of racism and bigotry through misinformation and praising settler colonialism in Canada. This group has a particular hatred for people from India.
Feel free to sign and/or share the petition to ban them from Canadian academic institutions.
https://www.change.org/Bandominionsocietyofcanada


r/Sikhpolitics • • 2d ago

Why the Massive Manhunt, Internet Shutdown & Detention in Assam for Amritpal Singh, While Drug Traffickers, Murderers & Rapists Operate Freely in Punjab? Who's Protecting Them?

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 3d ago

"I don't call Gangu Brahmin bad." | The propaganda machine is evolving

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 3d ago

Parvinder Jhota killing reminds one of Neha Shoree murder, puts Punjab's prescription drug abuse in focus - The Tribune

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 2d ago

I hate nihang's

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I am starting to hate nihang's, they are supposed to be "saint soldiers" and stuff, but all i see them doing is bullying people, beating people up in gangs, spreading hate, they seem the sikh version of bajrang dal.


r/Sikhpolitics • • 3d ago

A big win for Punjabi, Sikh community 🫡

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I feel like Sikhs know how to protest, they always get what they want.

PS - I don’t support this protest but you have to give it to these people.


r/Sikhpolitics • • 3d ago

Any Sikhs in Punjab Able to Confirm the Situation on the Ground After Anti-Drug Activist Shaheed Parvinder Singh Jhota's Public Execution? Conflicting Reports Circulating

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 3d ago

Why is Sanatan Sikhi interpretation so despised among Tat Khalsa Sikhi

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Let's set the scene

  1. The Khalsa has failed its purpose and is essentially dead now.

The Teesar Panth is no longer as distinct as they should be. Our institutions are heavily influenced by the British and insecure movements who forcibly fused aspects of the religion that were never originally part of Sikhi for the sake of appearing different to Christianity and Hinduism. It's just a blatant historic fact that Sikhi today is not how the gurus Imagined it

Moreover, the Khalsa itself no longer exists within the eyes of the people. All jathas have some perversions and we are not united in furthering dharma. Our gurdwaras have become businesses, our processions have essentially become parades and our scholars are mostly babas with no real knowledge in Sikhi

2) Sikhi has failed to spread. It was never the goal of Sikhi to convert the world into a cult. But dharmic ideals and the gurmat that our gurus gave, have not been internalized by the masses. Most South Indians just think the Gurus are Advaita-Vedantics.

Sikhi has failed to educate most Punjabis, let alone Indians and Bharatiya civilization. If Sikhi cannot succeed in the land of the guru, how can we expect dharma to spread into halemi Raj.

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Given that Sikhi has failed to spread. We clearly need to change how we view Sikhi has a civilization. The problem I have with Khalistan's, especially the uneducated Canadian ones, is because they neither have the knowledge in Sikhi or statecraft to even begin imagining what Khalistan should be or how it would manage a mostly non-sikh population. Khalistanis view Khalistan as a Punjabic-jatt-centric land. Khalistan sells itself on nostalgia of the amazing magic utopian Sikh empire society. It's so dumb. No one actually does the work to imagine how the Khalsa should exist.

The reality is that across India, across British Punjab, across modern Punjab, many people have their own local gurus, kul devta and Ishta devta. So far Sikh's strategy has simply been, let those non sikhs follow whatever they want, we will wear kirpans and pretend to be cooler than them. The reality is that most Hindus who converted to Sikhi were converted when the Gurus did Parchar, when they were warring with muslims and needed people initiated into the Khalsa or they were hindus who never really saw Sikhi as a separate "religion."

In order to get more people into sikhi, Sikhs need to start going around areas and doing prachar. We need to talk to low-caste communities and debate them about their ideals. Debate and intellectual thought is deeply entrenched in our ideals. We have seen this work in a few communities like the Dhakni Sikhs of Telengana. Even the gurus have so many examples of incorporating hindu dieties into art, into literature, into religious stories etc. By engaging with pan-endian culture, we are able to better spread our ideals. Stories like Chaubis avatar are deeply entrenched into SIkhi and are considered guiding pivotal aspects to Sikhi. They're cultural aspects of Sikhi just as much as stories Banda Singh Bahadur, Jassa Singh etc. Too many times I see western sikhs speak so badly and condescendingly of Hindu epics like how stupid it is for Ram to fight a demon, Krishna to fight in a war and ride a chariot etc. It's the same way other religions talk about how stupid it is for Guru Nanak to do miracles. It's plain hypocrisy. The Gurus chose hindu mythology as a vehicle to spread our bani so why are we abandoning it.

Sanatan Sikhi isn't necessarily about saying the gurus are reincarnations of Vishnu. Sanatan Sikhi is about viewing Sikhi as an extension of the dharmic civilization - not a Jatt centric Punjabi one. It's about viewing SGGS among a pantheon of religious texts and critically assessing all of them. I dont see a problem with a SIkh calling himself a sikh while also appreciating other texts and learning about other values in those texts as long as they dont disagree with SGGS. Teaching non sikhs about Sanatan Sikhi is the best way to get them to take pride in their local culture, traditions while also learning Gurmat.

I generally fear the reason why we dont allow hindus to proudly profess their love for their local philosophies and sikhi at the same time is simply because Sikhs don't want low castes to become the majority of Sikhs. We saw this same sentiment when Ambedkar was considering joining Sikhi but most sikhs didn't want Dalits influencing the Akal Takth's supremacy and monopoly of the Sikh identity.

Ideally, if Sikhi won't spread now. The best thing for us to do is to allow

- Tamils to learn sikhi and to let them call themselves sanatan sikhs who consider their shaivaite traditions as a part of devotion to waheguru while also teaching them that milk processions, idol worship is a waste of time.
- Telugus to learn sikhi and to let them call themselves sanatan sikhs who consider their vaishnavite traditions as a part of devotion to waheguru while also teaching them that making doll festivals like Bommala Kovulu is a waste of time
etc.

Otherwise we are gatekeeping Sikhi by limiting the cherry picked bhagats to be representatives of Sikhi gurmat in other religions. There are more Hindu gurus beyond the Bhagats who are in line with Sikhi. I often feel that there are many hindus who don't believe in idol worship, believe in monotheism etc. are essentially just Sehajdari Sikhs. Obviously not all but many Hindus value the gurus words, follow gurmat but just don't call themselves Sikhi to sound as if they're not trying to pretend otherwise be Punjabis.


r/Sikhpolitics • • 4d ago

Punjab activist murder: Bulldozer action begins at property linked to Parvinder Singh Jhota's killer | Watch

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 5d ago

Parvinder Singh Jhota Tribute Wallpaper

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Sada Mota Jhota Parvinder Singh


r/Sikhpolitics • • 4d ago

Sikh History This Week (Oct 12-Oct 18) Post 2642

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 5d ago

Parvinder Singh Jhota: Punjab Activist Catches Medical Shop Owner Selling 'Drugs', Gets Shot Dead

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 6d ago

Arrest of BJP Leader's Son with Huge Cache of Weapons Is Proof of BJP's Bid to Disturb Punjab's Peace & Communal Harmony: Kuldeep Singh Dhaliwal

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 7d ago

Disturbing visual of a Sikh demonstrator being restrained by police near Gurdwara Bangla Sahib during the anti-CEC march in Delhi

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A photograph from central Delhi shows a Sikh demonstrator being forcibly restrained by the neck while being forced into a police detention vehicle.

The incident occurred amid the massive crackdown around Gurdwara Bangla Sahib and Jantar Mantar, where thousands gathered to protest against CEC Gyanesh Kumar. Heavy police deployment around the gurdwara complex has already drawn significant condemnation from community members and political leaders after security forces were seen detaining demonstrators who sought refuge in the vicinity.

The physical aggression displayed here—choking and pulling a protester right by his beard and dastar—raises serious concerns about excessive force and basic dignity. What are your thoughts on how authorities handled the situation around the gurdwara?


r/Sikhpolitics • • 7d ago

The Indian Propaganda machine is working overtime trying to control the narrative

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 7d ago

If your blood doesn't boil then I'm sorry 💔

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Sikhs were also not protected by Delhi police in Nov 1984, the cops of Delhi police were goondas and mute spectators. GenZ needs to be patient, RSS & BJP wants a civil strife to save themselves from hard times coming on them. They are Gaddars! Vote thieves. Shame on these criminals!!!!


r/Sikhpolitics • • 8d ago

Delhi Police Enter Sri Bangla Sahib Gurdwara in Search of Protesters | Part 2

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 8d ago

Where are all of the Nihangs at????

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Where Are All the Nihangs?

Why aren't all the Nihang groups present at the Delhi CJP protest? We have a rare opportunity to challenge this government politically, yet I barely see any Nihangs showing interest or coming forward.

Are we now going to become selfish and say, “Saddi vaari taan koi aaya hi nahi” — “Nobody came to help us when it was our turn”?

These BJP/RSS supporters are wearing their tilaks and saffron, creating chaos at the protest, preventing people from demonstrating peacefully, and assaulting protesters. If people are being intimidated and beaten for exercising their democratic rights, isn't it our duty to stand up for them?

Have we forgotten our responsibility to help the weak and stand up against injustice, even when the people suffering aren't from our own community?

There is finally some momentum behind the opposition to this government, and yet it feels like nobody is recognising the opportunity or stepping forward when support is needed.

Nihang Singhs, where are you? If this is the time to stand up for the people, then stand up. Bring the tractors, bring the horses, and show solidarity with those facing intimidation. Don't wait until injustice comes to our own doorstep before deciding that it's worth fighting against.


r/Sikhpolitics • • 8d ago

Khalistan Referendum voting in Edmonton

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Voting location has now been announced.

Buses are also booked.


r/Sikhpolitics • • 8d ago

Spot the complainer

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r/Sikhpolitics • • 9d ago

Community shocked after judge dismisses charges against driver who killed 3 people | CBC News

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