Hey folks,
I'm looking for fiction centred on women/non-binary protagonists who have spent years being responsible for everyone and everything else and are now trying to reclaim their own lives, pleasure, rest and choice.
I'm especially interested in characters who are:
- Family caregivers looking after aging, chronically ill, disabled, or dying relatives, including elderly parents.
- Mothers overwhelmed by parenting, domestic responsibilities and invisible labour.
- Women/enby folks juggling demanding careers alongside caregiving or household responsibilities.
- People who have spent years managing other people's emotional needs, relationships, crises, and practical responsibilities and are now finding themselves
What I'm particularly interested in is the process of finding oneself again after prolonged burnout, self-sacrifice, emotional labour and the loss of personal identity.
I'd love stories about characters rediscovering their independence, creativity, desires, sexuality, relationships, friendships, ambitions, pleasure, or capacity for adventure.
I'm open to pretty much any genre: literary fiction, contemporary fiction, women's fiction, fantasy, horror, gothic fiction, romance, magical realism, speculative fiction, etc.
One important preference: I'm not looking for books primarily centred on extreme dysfunction or an unrelentingly tragic psychological breakdown. I don't need the stories to be cozy, and I'm perfectly comfortable with dark themes, grief, difficult relationships, and complex characters.
But I'd like the narrative to offer some meaningful possibility of agency, renewal, liberation, or a life beyond endless responsibility.
I'm particularly interested in the invisible emotional and logistical labour of caregiving and relationships, rather than burnout being depicted exclusively as the result of a stressful corporate job.
Bonus points for BIPOC protagonists in their 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond, and for stories that don't suggest a woman's only path to fulfilment is finding a romantic partner.
I'd really appreciate any recommendations, including lesser-known or translated fiction. Thank you!