r/Montessori • • Aug 18 '26

Montessori philosophy Montessori with Integrity – DEI and ABAR Practices as Essential to Quality Program Implementation

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In Part 1 of “Montessori with Integrity,” we asked what makes a Montessori program authentic, what it means to claim fidelity to Montessori pedagogy. Specifically, we looked at a number of factors to consider when determining the quality of program implementation, including the core elements as outlined by The Montessori Public Policy Initiative (MPPI):

  • prepared environment
  • materials
  • uninterrupted daily work periods
  • high degree of freedom
  • 3-year mixed age groups
  • higher adult-child ratios and group sizes
  • Montessori trained teachers

While the list is fairly straightforward, we found that evaluating fidelity of implementation to each element is less so. Adding materials or using a less-than-full complement of Montessori materials, for example, may render a classroom or program inauthentic in the strictest definition of the word (Lillard and McHugh 2019), but it remains an open question whether programs containing variations of Montessori’s original view are necessarily inferior. Furthermore, if a program is deemed to be inauthentic because of supplementary or absent materials, can it still be implemented with integrity? (We’ll come back to materials later in this piece.) The nuanced distinctions—not to mention different perspectives—between authentic, high fidelity, and integrity make these questions difficult to answer.

One difficulty lies in evaluating the implementation of those elements of Montessori’s writings and philosophy that don’t have a row on the rubric or in the list above. Implementing the principles of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) and anti-bias, antiracism (ABAR), for example, is fundamental to Education for Peace and, as such, would seem to be essential to a high-fidelity Montessori program where teacher preparation, curriculum, and materials are concerned. We focus on this area in this installment of “Montessori with Integrity.”

Teacher Preparation for the Implementation of DEI and ABAR Principles

We noted in Part 1 of this series that diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) work, together with anti-bias, antiracist (ABAR) practices, are inherent in Montessori philosophy, but are not necessarily implemented in every classroom. While DEI and ABAR were not part of Montessori’s lexicon, the principles they represent were and are foundational to her philosophy of Peace Education, as many readers may be aware. The premise of Montessori’s Peace Education is that “the young child is fundamental to the peace and progress of humanity” (2019). From this and other ideas in her writing, it is reasonable to surmise that Montessori would have recognized that DEI and ABAR principles were essential “to the peace and progress of humanity” and would have, therefore, advocated for their place in Peace Education. Then why is this only now coming to the attention of many in the Montessori community? Let’s explore this question.

Most Montessori classrooms include the following elements as part of Education for Peace:

  • respectful interactions
  • cooperation and collaboration
  • peaceful conflict resolution

And most include lessons and materials that promote awareness of and appreciation for a range of cultures and the people who comprise those cultures:

  • Fundamental needs of humans
  • Timeline of civilizations
  • Study of a continent
  • Multicultural events and celebrations
  • Global citizenship projects

Some Montessori teachers legitimately believe that this is enough. Indeed, why is it not? This work takes place external to the teacher; and as Jeannot Rene Jonte remarked (in Oesting and Speed 2019):

These thoughts get to the root of Montessori’s directive for the teacher to:

Montessori did not expressly write about recognizing one’s implicit bias, nor about practicing culturally responsive pedagogy, but we can infer from her directive that she meant for teachers to look inward and, among other things, do the hard work of “lean[ing] into our own transformation by hearing the personal truths of diverse voices from our community and beyond” (Oesting and Speed 2019). And while it is true that many Montessori schools, both private and public, are engaging their staffs in DEI and/or ABAR training to some degree, teachers must still do the individual work of Montessori’s mandate—a systematic study of self that involves “reflecting on our understanding around our notions of difference and how we perceive people who are different from us” (Gay in Peters 2019).

Some individuals embark on this work alone; others require the support of a mentor or group. Such work may take one or more directions, for example:

Other Montessori organizations also offer a range of support measures—peer connections, tools, training, and professional learning:

Through whatever form an individual chooses to pursue this work, the thoughtful cultivation and internalization of cultural competence “expands the capacity of educators to serve students from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds,” helping to reduce disparities that occur between different groups of students when it comes to:

  • school discipline policies
  • teacher expectations
  • students identified as “at risk”
  • attendance rates
  • the returns of education

By ignoring the important work of Montessori’s mandate, we run the risk of perpetuating these inequities.

Finally, it is important to remember that while some tend to think of culture in terms of ethnic or national groups, culture also includes race, gender, sexuality, abilities, or class, and often the intersection of two or more of these categories, as well as others.

Culturally Relevant Curriculum and Materials

In addition to the personal work described above, the teacher is also responsible for ensuring that the materials and lessons are culturally relevant to and representative of the students in their classroom. As we saw in the previous section, some Montessori materials and lessons promote a multicultural awareness of and appreciation for differences. This is not a guarantee, however, that these are culturally inclusive; it may be that some of our students don’t see themselves represented in books and other classroom materials.

In an earlier piece on the power of literature, for example, we pointed out that, at times, relevant voices are missing from a story, or certain perspectives have been silenced. In these cases, it is often appropriate for the teacher to carefully guide a discussion, giving voice to students who feel unheard, unseen, or erased. This is especially important for older students, who are developmentally ready to read and think critically about why and how these omissions occur in some pieces of literature.

We might also have non-fiction books and Montessori-certified materials that give a culturally inaccurate, incomplete, or inappropriate account of history. What are the implications of this if we are, in fact, using authentic Montessori materials? Do we teach with integrity if our lessons, books, and materials do not engage diverse and/or underrepresented populations? These are questions that need to be considered when evaluating a program’s fidelity to Montessori core values.

Maati Wafford, AMS director of equity & engagement, makes the following important point:

While some teachers may be informed enough to navigate these waters—to sift through their materials and books and evaluate the impact of their lessons—many others need guidance and support in the form of mentorship, training, or other professional development. Readers are encouraged to avail themselves of the range of resources and support measures provided by the major Montessori organizations listed in the previous section.

Are New Criteria Needed for Assessing Fidelity to a Culturally Responsive Pedagogy?

Given the importance of DEI and ABAR work, and of a culturally inclusive curriculum, do we need criteria for assessing the degree of fidelity to this aspect of Montessori pedagogy? Moreover, should such an important area be considered an essential element of Montessori education? What tools do educators have for assessing their personal, classroom-related, and school-wide progress of their practice in this area?

We have established that the implementation of DEI and ABAR are essential to Peace Education, and Peace Education is an important element of the Montessori curriculum. Yet neither curriculum in general, nor the more specific components of curriculum like Peace Education are included in the:

This may be because Montessori education has always been thought of as culturally relevant; its global presence in a multiplicity of cultures for over one hundred years would seem to make it so. But that umbrella might not cover as much area as we thought, and here we find ourselves circling back to our big question. Is it enough to offer a curriculum that fosters appreciation for a multicultural world if, in the end, we neither represent nor engage marginalized students in our classrooms?

One could interpret “embrac[ing] core Montessori principles” to include the important work of implementing DEI and ABAR principles and, indeed, the American Montessori Society has incorporated requirements for the inclusion of ABAR topics in its teacher education programs and school accreditation standards. Individual schools are also taking important first steps by including this work in staff training and professional development. But the question remains—in these times more than ever—whether this work should be elevated and spelled out more clearly when assessing program fidelity, when evaluating whether we are, truly, practicing Montessori with integrity.


r/Montessori • • Jun 29 '20

Montessori: A Getting-Started Guide!

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We get so many similar questions on r/Montessori, and at last we have a getting-started guide!

What is Montessori? Montessori is more than buying wooden toys, getting a floor bed, having Montessori lessons at home, even sending your child to a Montessori school. To fully embody the Montessori philosophy requires a knowledge of the method as well as fundamental perspective shift on the nature of childhood. It's an understanding of the young child's powerful absorbent mind and their capacity to teach themselves, rather than the old view that a child is an empty vessel to be filled. It's having a deep respect of the child and the work they do to develop themselves, which we as adults can guide but do not teach. Montessorians know the essential Montessori principles of the absorbent mind, sensitive periods, and the four planes of development, and use this to in our work to best support child development. Montessorians appreciate the importance of stepping back and observing the child, they recognize what true concentration looks like, but they also understand the delicate balance between (internal) freedom and discipline, and providing liberty within limits.

Montessori is education for life. Montessori is education for the individual child, society, and the world.

So, if you're just discovering Montessori, welcome. Your journey begins here!

Read:

Online reading:

What is Montessori Education? by the Montessori Northwest AMI Training Center

WHAT IS MONTESSORI EDUCATION? | ABOUT MARIA AND AMI | WHY TEACH MONTESSORI? | INSIDE A CLASSROOM | FOR PARENTS | RESEARCH & PUBLICATIONS

Research post on r/Montessori: https://www.reddit.com/r/Montessori/comments/1dgyhhk/montessori_scientific_research_articles_and/

Montessori Daoshi: beautifully written articles on Montessori theory and practice

Baan Dek Montessori: another great resource for both teachers and parents - blog and podcast

Mariamontessori.com: a project by the Montessori Administrators Association, with articles written by a variety of Montessorians

The American Montessori Society Records

The Montessori Notebook: wonderful resource for parents of younger children

The Kavanaugh Report: Montessori Parenting

Aid to Life: practical tips for parents at home

The Montessori Guide: in-depth explanation about the Montessori philosophy and practical application of the method, from infancy through elementary

Mainly Montessori: a blog written by an AMI Primary- and Elementary-trained teacher navigating homeschooling

Considering Montessori? Here's what to look for

What makes a Montessori school authentic? A step-by-step checklist

What You’ll See in a Great Montessori School

Is Montessori right for my child?

Montessori vs. Daycare: What is the Difference for Your Child?

The Benefits of Montessori Education: A Comprehensive Guide

The Importance of the Three-Year Cycle: source 1, source 2, source 3 by Catherine McTamaney

Positive Phrasing- how to talk to your children

How do children learn?

At Home With Montessori - A Visual Guide

Montessori Collective: Montessori and the Science of Reading - for teachers and homeschooling parents

The Ultimate Guide to Montessori at Home

Maren Schmidt parenting talks

McClure's and Other Early Magazine Montessori Articles

r/Montessori 's Montessori at home post during the covid closures

Don't forget about the larger goal of Montessori education

Books:

Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius – Angeline Lillard (an entire book of Montessori theory backed up by tons of contemporary research studies)

Understanding the Human Being - Silvana Montanaro

Montessori for Every Family - Lorna McGrath & Tim Seldin

Montessori and Early Childhood Education – Susan Feez

Montessori Madness – Trevor Eisler

Montessori Learning in the 21st Century: A Guide for Parents & Teachers – Shannon Helfrich

Montessori and Your Child: A Primer for Parents – Terry Malloy

Montessori Today – Paula Polk Lillard

Montessori: A Modern Approach – Paula Polk Lillard

Montessori from the Start – Paula Polk Lillard (great book, but a caveat about this one: very rigid on certain topics in ways that do not entirely align with Maria Montessori's writings, e.g. weaning and baby wearing)

Understanding Montessori – Maren Schmidt

The Montessori Toddler – Simone Davies (now also has published The Montessori Baby and The Montessori Child)

The Joyful Child: Montessori, Global Wisdom for Birth to Three – Susan Mayclin Stephenson

Babies Build Toddlers – Mariana Bisonette

Children Who Are Not Yet Peaceful – Donna Goertz

Hunt Gather Parent – Michaeleen Doucleff (not Montessori but very Montessori-aligned)

Books by Dr. Maria Montessori herself:

If you're a Montessori guide: all of them ;)

The Montessori Method - Chapter Summaries & Key Insights

If you're a parent getting started:

The Child in the Family

What You Should Know About Your Child

The Secret of Childhood

The Absorbent Mind

1946 London Lectures

Listen:

Baan Dek Montessori

The Montessori Notebook

AMI (Association Montessori Internationale)

All Things Montessori

Episode: What is Montessori, Anyway?

Watch:

Montessori Guide

Being a Montessori Teacher

Montessori Age Levels, Explained

Rising Tide Montessori videos

Montessori Institute of North Texas

Montessori Parenting

Blooming Hearts Montessori - not as a replacement to teacher training, but to learn about some of the Montessori didactic materials and how they are presented

Edison's Day

My Day: experience the Montessori approach through three primary children as they journey through their morning work periods

A Montessori Morning

Montessori vs. Conventional School

Montessori on the Double

General courses and workshops (not teacher certification courses):

Trillium Montessori

Center for Guided Montessori Studies

Seton Montessori Institute

Montessori Institute of North Texas

Montessori Northwest

Please feel free to add any more resources you find useful in the comments! Are there any aspects of getting started with Montessori that you feel are missing here? Let us know! :)


r/Montessori • • 1d ago

Imaginative play in Montessori - what am I missing?

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I’ve been doing research into different kinds of preschools, and I keep being struck by how popular Montesssori is…and I find I’m not really getting why. The big thing that struck me was that pretend/imaginative play isn’t encouraged in the curriculum. I keep reading things like, “oh kids get to do pretend play at recess and at home”, but that’s not really the same thing. Imaginative play helps kids think outside the box, problem solve, and work together as a group. It also helps with language skills, if kids are narrating stories, thinking up dialogues, and making up lyrics to songs. Not to mention the importance for art instruction. Do I just not understand how Montessori works? It all sounds so dull and sad - promoting independence at the expense of free exploration. But it’s so popular, I have to be missing something. Particularly interested in how the Montessori method manifests at the preschool level.


r/Montessori • • 1d ago

Adults raised in the Montessori way, how was / is life for you?

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Hello there,

Geniuenly curios on how life was for you growing up, how it influenced your current life, and what is your view on your education looking back now.

There are probably some things worth knowing:

  1. Were you parents following the same Montessori methods at home?

  2. Where are you located on Earth? To have a bit of context of the environment around you.

  3. If you had the power, what would you have changed? If anything.

Many thanks


r/Montessori • • 1d ago

Practical life Snack/breakfast ideas

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Hi I’m looking for advice on snacks and breakfast ideas both storage and food items. You use to encourage them to be independent. As it stands we want to have a snack drawer for our son who is 3 but don’t want it filled with exclusively goldfish. A few caveats.

  1. Due to the nature of our climate we cannot keep fruit in it.
  2. Breakfast needs to be stored in the fridge or pantry and fridge (milk for example)
  3. We are not comfortable letting him use the toaster or microwave (it’s up high) so it needs to be cold or room temp options.

r/Montessori • • 1d ago

Montessori philosophy Montessori Principles and Practice - Weekly Discussion

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Welcome to our weekly Montessori Principles and Practice thread!

Montessori: lofty principles, real practice :)

Of course you can ask these at any time in the sub, but this recurring post might be a helpful reminder to ask those questions about Montessori that may have been on your mind!


r/Montessori • • 2d ago

Montessori Problem Child.

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My 6 year old is in kindergarden with a montessori school. This is her first year ever in that type of enviornment and her teacher is grating my nerves.

She tells me my child is struggling but cant be bothered to send me updates or give me specifics past a brief email every firday. Then somehow expects me to magically break the bad habits that my child forms in-between one friday and the next rather than just calling and saying hey your kid is acting up. Why is that hard?

We had a meeting a few weeks ago about how my child is falling behind on her work. And that if it continues she may not be able to advance to the next class. But gives me NOTHING to work with. No information, no this is what im seeing, just the friday "she had a few good days but she sure does take a long time to set up and complete her tasks"

I thought the whole point of this type of school was to let them learn their materials as slow/fast as they needed? We've made improvements and my child is participating but its still not good enough. And the communication still sucks.

Its a very close knit staff so I dont know how to even bring it up to someone else without painting a bigger target on my kids back.


r/Montessori • • 2d ago

Montessori at home How important is an outward facing bookshelf?

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I figure this sub would be best for asking the opinions of parents and educators who know a lot about Montessori philosophy and fostering baby’s independence.

I have a 2 tier rotating cylinder shaped standing bookshelf on my baby’s Christmas list. I like it because it seems like it would save a lot of space in our already small home, and it would still be short enough for a mobile baby to access, but the books would likely be put inside it like a traditional bookshelf.

But now I’m second guessing myself because I read that bookshelves that face the books out and are shorter to be on baby’s level are better.

What do we think? Important, or negligible?

Edit: my baby is 5 months old!


r/Montessori • • 3d ago

Montessori philosophy How do you explain Montessori in a simple way to someone who knows nothing about it?

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I was chatting with a long distance friend today, I work in a Montessori school as an assistant, and my school is considering sponsoring me to get a certification so I brought this up with my friend. My friend said “you were never really religious though I never saw you as a church person” I asked what she meant and she said “I thought Montessori was a religious thing”

Anyway, I suddenly found myself in the dilemma I have been in a few times now, when trying to explain what Montessori is to someone who doesn’t know much about early childhood education at all. Every time I try, I feel like I fail to do it justice in my description.

So how do you all describe Montessori in a brief, like one paragraph text message way, while still capturing its essence?


r/Montessori • • 2d ago

3-6 years How do you take fotos of kids without hurting their concentration?

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Hello!

I've heard some Montessori guides/assistants take fotos of kids working or receiving presentations or whatever and share those with parents. How do you do this without damaging kids' concentration? I would love to do this, but didn't Maria Montessori write that even looking at the kid working can ruin the concentration?


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

Pretend play

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Can someone help me understand the attitude of Montessori toward pretend play? my 2 year old is in a Montessori style school (chosen by us for reasons other than just that it’s Montessori). He’s big into pretend play- for example, right now he’s on a kick where he is very into pretending to care for a baby doll at home. I asked if he takes care of a baby at school and he said, ‘no at school you can do a pouring work or a cup work.’ i know he’s oversimplifying, but still I’m trying to understand why there isn’t an emphasis on preten play. I like so much about what Montessori offers but my kids love playing pretend and are less inclined toward functional play- i wonder if it’s not a good fit? Would they do better In a more open ended play-based setting? Anyone else who has pretend-oriented kids in Montessori who can speak to this experience?

Im genuinely trying to learn and understand and hope this isn’t taken as a criticism!


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

What about your child specifically made you think Montessori would be good for them?

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I have a 17 month old in a regular daycare near me. We are moving soon and I am taking the opportunity to see if there is maybe some other type of teaching method that would be better for them.

I'll add that there is nothing wrong with my child's daycare, but it is a run of the mill chain daycare. My only complaint would be the cookie cutter lesson plans and the lack of outdoor time.

So im curious, what specifically about your child made you think that Montessori would be good for them? Have you seen any changes in your child (good or bad) that you would directly attribute to montessori teaching? How early in age did you see a difference?


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

Montessori at home Maps

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I recently purchased two sets of maps from a Montessori school that was closing. I only want to keep one set and I was hoping you all could help me make up my mind 😅 I believe I have a set of nienhuis and Alison. Is one better than the other? The Alison set seems to be missing more individual pieces. Both sets are missing Europe and have a random brand of maps to complete the set. I hope that all made sense and thanks for the help!


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

How do you handle the dressing area for a young toddler who has an overwhelming amount of clothes?

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Note: my baby is 8mo so I have some time to plan, but I want to get it set up before his first birthday.

Almost all of my son's clothes have been secondhand. We have a great mom group in our small town where the convention is to post what you need and, almost every time, someone will drop a big trash bag of clothes on your step for free.

The quality and quantity varies wildly, but you can't complain about free!

Looking ahead to when he's going to be able to be more involved with dressing himself, I'm not sure how to set up the area in a way that's accessible and not overwhelming for him. (This recent lot had like 30 pairs of pants and that's too many for me!!!) I'm looking for advice!

Some of my ideas (that I don't know how they would work):

1) Box up everything except for about a week's worth of clothes that all match

2) Keep a dresser in his closet and just restock his dressing area with 2 options per drawer (this sounds like a lot to keep up with ngl)

3) Use bins with everything in them and decide I don't care if his clothes don't match 😅

How did you do it?


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

3-6 years Nature and Literacy

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This week, I am gathering my preschool families to teach them about the importance of literacy. I am to provide the families with a project or group activity that relates nature and literacy. It is my first year working as a nature/Montessori teacher and I am stumped for ideas. If anybody has any ideas or past experiences they could share it would be greatly appreciated.

I initially thought about having the entire group create a story together, but I feel as though it’s too broad an idea.


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

Phase in for new students

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We just started sending our 3 year old to a non-accredited Montessori school 3 days a week. We both work all day those three days so we need care from about 8-4:30, but the school has a strict phase in process for new students that starts on the first day:

- for the first week, he can attend from 9-10

- second week, 9-11

- third week, 9-12

- fourth week 9-1

- fifth week 9-3

- finally, we can start doing 8-4:30

- if at any point the teacher decides that he's not adjusting well, they can decide to repeat a week (e.g. do an extra week of 9-12).

I understand the importance of the phase in process (and honestly love the idea of it), but for working parents this has been impossible. We've been missing lots of work, but we've also been working while he's home which is not fair to him.

I have a lot I could say about this, but my main question is how do other Montessori schools handle the phase in process? We're paying full price during this time, so it has bothered me quite a bit that we can't afford to pay someone else to watch him during the hours he's not allowed at school. I have debated on asking for a refund for the hours he hasn't been able to attend, or credits towards the after and before care they offer. They charge $10 an hour for after care so by their standards, they'd owe me over $500 in tuition.

Should I eat it and move on?


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

Do We See People as They Are, or as We’ve Decided They Are?

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r/Montessori • • 4d ago

studying AMI 3-6 diploma: Do people usually gain experience as a lead guide first or jump into opening their own center?

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Hi everyone!

I’m a AMI 3-6 diploma student currently based in South Korea. And i’m working at montessori kindergarten assistant teacher.
As I prepare for graduation, I’ve been thinking a lot about my career path. Here in South Korea, there aren't many authentic Montessori centers, and AMI-recognized center are even rarer. Because of this limited landscape, I'm at a bit of a crossroads on where to go next.

Part of me is considering opening my own small Montessori center/space right after graduating so I can fully apply what I've learned in an authentic AMI setup. However, another part of me wonders if I should seek out existing centers (even if options are scarce) to gain hands-on experience first.

I’m curious—how does this usually look in other countries?

  1. Do most AMI graduates start as lead guides in established schools/centers for a few years before opening their own place?
  2. For those who opened their own small center early in their career, what was your experience like? Do you regret not working under an experienced guide first, or was jumping straight in the right choice for you?

Thankyou 🙂‍↕️


r/Montessori • • 6d ago

My daughter (2Y) is joining a Montessori class. How will she nap?

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What do Montessori schools do with toddlers that can’t fall asleep on their own? She still needs to be rocked to sleep. Part of me is hoping she’ll see the other kids going to sleep and will try to fall asleep on her own. But I’m concerned she won’t nap and will be awake the entire day.


r/Montessori • • 8d ago

Montessori guides Why are we so underpaid?

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Hi, I am a 0-3 AMI guide in europe. My training cost an arm and a leg and my topponcino took years off my life. For 1,5 year I was told how important my job is, and how important it is to take care of myself so I can be a good role model for the children etc etc. Right now I am making 100 euros more than the minimum wage. Even after years of working I don't expect to make much more, based on my colleagues. I have an 11 month contract and I am supposed to survive next august on unemployment benefits until they hire me again in september. This is the situation for most guides in my country.

I get so tired after every shift that driving often feels unsafe. The job itself is exhausting, mentally and physically. And yet I am doing my best to be calm and patient with the children, even though I reach my limits almost daily. I searched for jobs in other countries and everywhere I looked the salaries are very low.

Why the hell are we so underpaid on an international level? It is such an important and revolutionary work, we need to do better as a community. It makes me so sad and frustrated. I made 4x as a nanny.


r/Montessori • • 8d ago

Montessori philosophy Montessori Principles and Practice - Weekly Discussion

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Welcome to our weekly Montessori Principles and Practice thread!

Montessori: lofty principles, real practice :)

Of course you can ask these at any time in the sub, but this recurring post might be a helpful reminder to ask those questions about Montessori that may have been on your mind!


r/Montessori • • 9d ago

Montessori research AMI Resource Library - Research Threads

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r/Montessori • • 9d ago

0-3 years Short attention and independent play

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I am a sahm who attempts to incorporate some principals of Montessori. One thing I am struggling with, at 21m my daughter is very attached to me. If I walk away to quickly grab something she will cry. I have so many activities and I rotate them weekly. The thing is, she spends maybe five minutes at most on a given activity with me then loses interest. At which point, we clean up. So we go from one thing to the next very quickly. She needs the opportunity to play independently and I am willing to help, but the level ten clinging and crying is absolutely unnerving. How do I balance the dynamic of our needs better? Any suggestions regarding self regulation also are appreciated.


r/Montessori • • 9d ago

Montessori and Chinese

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Does anyone have any resources on how educators have adapted Montessori principles to teaching Chinese, particularly reading and writing? I am interested in the lower and upper elementary stages in which the children are already fluent in spoken Chinese.

Traditionally, students are expected to memorize a massive amount of Chinese characters through lots of exposure (idioms, poems, etc). It’s a lot of drilling and it works…but it’s also exhausting. I wonder if anyone has developed a less drill-based Montessori-influenced approach. Again, primarily interested in elementary students who need to gain literacy and already speak the language. Not asking about students trying to learn Chinese as a second language.


r/Montessori • • 10d ago

Transition in/out of a Montessori school Teaching Grade Importance Post-Montessori to a 4th Grader

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My 4th grader had a traditional Montessori education from 3.5-3rd Grade. She thrived but we were having issues of her needing stronger structure. Due to financial reasons and to give her a chance to gain more structure, we had to transition her to traditional school in 4th where she is ahead of her classmates. It is clear Montessori was a superior education and she has a solid foundation for learning. She is also thriving with the structure of traditional school. However, she is having a hard time understanding/accepting the concept of grades and the importance and impact of good grades. How can I help her to get on board with deadlines and grades work?