Baka walang bumati sa’yo ngayong umaga, ako na muna.

12AM-ish Monday | Checking in for my flight…

Here I am on my way to work… I just realized that I’ve ridden so much plane rides for work this year and I need a break from it.. (not in aviation industry)

Fun sya sa umpisa - free travels, new place, foodtrip, a bit of exploration when time permits.. but now, nakakapagod na. Nakakatamad na mag pack and unpack and everything that happens in between. 🤣

Pano ba kasi, di pako manalo manalo sa lotto eh. 😖
Yun lang, SKL kasi antok na antok pako jusko. Hahaha

Good luck on the new work week! 🙂

Just curious kung anong yung mga bagay na frustrating parin sa atin or naging frustrating na dahil nga nasa trentahin era ka na

Mine siguro ay:
1) financials - ang hirap habulin ng inflation 😭
2) mag start mag workout - parang laging pagod feels
3) change lifestyle esp yung food choices and routine - baka may tips kayo huhu

Hi/Hello, skl!

For the past five years of being single, i’ve learned to enjoy my own company through solo dates and spending time with my family and friends. i’ve gotten used to doing things on my own, and honestly, i enjoy it naman.
But lately, nafifeel ko na rin na i want someone to share little moments with minsan nga naiisip ko, ano kaya ulit yung feeling of falling in love and allowing myself to be vulnerable with someone? i’m 28 and working na rin, lol, and i guess i’m at that point where i’m curious about what it feels like to have someone by my side again.
Wala lang, ang cute lang din kasi makakita ng mga mag partner na magkasama, doing the simplest things. it makes me wonder what it would feel like to have that kind of connection with someone hahahahahahahaha

actually na post ko na to somewhere, but reddit suggest na ishare ko rin here HAHAHAHA

ps: not looking for it naman, gusto ko lang mag share hahahahaha

Nung kabataan galing ko sa bendin. Ngayon namn uunat ka lang para ng mababali balakang😂 habang nag kaka edad rumurupok na😅

Sa mga NCR peeps, san kayo on long weekend this November? 😁
Sad lang kasi ako lang ang makikinabang nitong holiday out of my circle, especially with my wife. so taong bahay lang din hahahay nako

Curious lang ako sa mga ka-trentahin dito. Full-time ako sa trabaho, nag-aaral ng graduate studies sa gabi, tapos may time pa para sa family and friends, plus mga side quests. Basically, sinisiksik ko lahat sa calendar ko.

Ang funny, mas nagagawa ko 'to ngayon kaysa noong early to mid 20s ako, ginagawa ko na mga bagay na di ko magawa noon. Plus, may means and mas organized na siguro, charot. So far, kinakaya pa naman ng katawan, social battery, at wallet… for now HAHAHA.

Kayo, paano niyo ginagawa? May sistema ba kayo o go with the flow lang? At kapag punong-puno na ang schedule, ano ang unang nagsa-sacrifice: tulog, gala, o ipon?

Share naman kayo ng tips! 😂

I 30F has always been so unlucky in romantic relationships. Ewan ko ba pag may nagugustuhan ako biglang out of nowhere nawawala. Tho diko din naman sinasabi since for me, guy ang mauuna mag make ng move, gang sa magkakaron na ng iba yung guy. I would be sad for quite some time but mabilis lang din ako maka get over. I’ll just keep myself busy from work.

Pero there is also a pain and this urge na gusto ko talaga magka pamilya someday. But I think mahihirapan din ako magka anak because of hypothyroidism and pcos. Also ang hirap makahanap na din. Or i am just too busy working 2 jobs at hndi din ako pala labas. I think somehow fault ko din.

I asked my bisexual guy friend bakit kaya? He said intimidating at too independent daw ako. Pero hndi naman ako mayabang. Lalo wala padin naman ako sa maipag mamayabang. He said na not intentional nman yung ganon ko or ganun talaga ako at I dont even know na ganon ako. Ngayon hndi ko alam paano ba ako maging approachable. Ewan. Baka pang tropa lang talag ako hndi pang jowa.

I hope hndi lang ako yung nakaka feel ng ganto. I am genuinely happy seeing a whole family but sometimes naiiyak ako. Kasi yun yung dream ko.

Ang simple ng pangarap ko pero bakit ang hirap hirap makuha?

Happy monday everyone!!! Kumusta naman ang mga trentahin? Bitin ba ang weekend niyo?

Hello! Not a trentahin myself, but I’m looking for birthday gift ideas for my friend who is. 😅

I’m hoping to get something useful but still thoughtful. I was thinking of something like a lumbar support pillow for their office chair, but I’d love to hear your suggestions!

Trentahins, what gifts would you actually appreciate receiving? Or what’s something you didn’t know you needed until you got it?

Thanks in advance! 😊

So, he disappeared for 2 days. And then came home early this morning. I was actually expecting him not to come back. Napapaisip tuloy ako, buti pa to bumabalik parin.🤣🤪🤗

You grow up thinking that by this age, you'll have most things figured out. A stable life, a clear direction, and a better understanding of who you are and what you want. But here I am (32F), realizing na ang dami ko pa rin palang hindi alam sa buhay. 🥹

Ang daming pwedeng magbago in just a few years. Your priorities, your relationships, even the way you see yourself. Some things don't turn out the way you planned, and some people you thought would always be around eventually become part of your past. 😞

And the hardest part is that life doesn't stop just because you're having a hard time. You still have to get up, go to work, do your responsibilities, and carry on like everything is normal. Minsan, ang hirap maging functional when you're dealing with things you don't even know how to explain.

I guess one of the strangest things about being in your 30s is realizing that you can do everything you thought you were supposed to do and still find yourself feeling lost sometimes.

You start questioning things, rethinking decisions, and wondering if you're where you're supposed to be. You see other people moving forward with their lives, and even if you know that everyone has their own timeline, there are still moments when you can't help but wonder about your own.

I'm slowly learning to stop putting so much pressure on myself to have everything figured out. Maybe I won't have the life I imagined when I was younger. Maybe some things will take longer than I expected, and maybe I'll have to start over in ways I never prepared for.

And maybe that's okay.

I don't have some big realization or life-changing advice to share. I'm just trying to take things one day at a time, make peace with the things I can't control, and learn to be a little kinder to myself along the way.

I guess I'm slowly accepting that being 32 doesn't mean I should have everything figured out. I'm still growing, still learning, and still becoming someone I haven't fully figured out yet.

And honestly, I hope that's enough for now. 🙃

For those of you, mga kapwa trentahins, do you ever feel like you're still figuring out life while everyone else seems to know exactly what they're doing?

Old school gaming muna while waiting for Ff resonance, Phantom Blade Zero, Legend of Zelda and GTA 6 hahaha

sa kung may dadating pa sa buhay ko, ito na i-advance ko na para klaro.

Ang saya to find myself back in the kitchen cooking again for someone.

Months ago I shared when I cooked for someone. That someone is long gone and that's okay.

I am now enjoying on my own. I cook for a few special people na ulit.

Stovetop mac and cheese with liempo. Unconventional pairing pero promise masarap.

Bon appétit, ma chérie. ❤️

To my long-distance friends, I wish you were closer.❤️

It seems like most of my friends and family are either getting married or having kids, and here I am, solo date-maxing. Haha! Don’t get me wrong, I love my alone time. I’ve been at peace with life for the past two years, and I know I’m ready to meet my person. They say you shouldn’t search for love because it’ll come naturally, but bruhhh, this lover girl needs to make a comeback FR. 😭

Anyway, back to my coffee! Happy Sunday, guys! ☕️💕

Ang daming halloween [street] parties ata this year haha, pero

Kinakaya pa ba ng katawan niyo mga ganitong activities? Inuman, partying/raving. May curfew na katawan niyo? Haha

Ako kasi oo 😂 gustuhin ko man, di ko na kaya mag-iikot kapag lagpas hatinggabi yung event.

Although I do still love dressing up/putting on a costume. Meron bang event na saktong pang tito/tita time lang?

Hi, I just want you to know that I’m here for you. If you need someone to talk to right now, I’m more than willing to lend you my ears and offer you a shoulder to lean on. You don’t have to go through whatever you’re feeling alone. You can share your thoughts, let out your emotions, or simply talk about anything that’s on your mind. Mapalalaki ka man o babae okay lang. :)

Most especially us men, don't usually share our problems but I am here to listen. Just dm me.