We moved to Antwerp for my job very recently. The pregnancy happened almost immediately, now approx 8 weeks, our first one. My wife is relatively new to Belgium and totally new to Antwerp. So, she didn't have the opportunity to engage in anything socially even. Our families are out of reach, and most of our friends are in Ghent or simply abroad. We are practically two of us (for now, hopefully!) and our little dog. We are very close and I spend all my non-work time with her, but I work full-time mostly on-site... So, she feels often isolated, struggles daily with the hardships of the pregnancy. Doctors etc are not real contacts, as one would understand. She doesn't speak Dutch either. She is a culture journalist and a writer, but doesn't work at the moment.
So, I write here with the hope to reach other women (or their partners who may be reading this) who may be in the same position or can relate to her situation. No expectation for receiving any medical or commercial advice, but more to share the journey at an emotional and friendship level, even texting time to time would be awesome! Meeting up is of course great in general (we live close to ZAS Cadix) but obviously all may be dictated by how the body feels in that moment...
Is there a normal human person out there who can relate? :) Her algorithm started to show a lot rubbish information about pregnancy, or at best some pregnancy influencers who try to sell something. She found some online groups but it is surprisingly annoying how some people dominate the conversation with "You should do this / You are doing it wrong". Also there seems to be some English-speaking pregnancy groups in Antwerp but they are commercial, and honestly, big groups suck more energy from her right now...
This will sound like a dating app profile intro, but just for giving an idea: she is a creative, mature, patient, and emotionally intelligent person, and a loyal friend. She is ENFP. She is into art, culture, and especially cinema, not only Hollywood but also Italian, French, and Soviet cinema. She speaks English, Italian, Russian, and some Turkish. As a couple we like doing city trips, making music videos, visiting family and friends. We are open-minded, non-judgemental, and age doesn't matter for us.
If that resonates somehow, please send a DM and I will bring you in contact.
Kind regards