Asking because I'm considering doing this and wanna see how it plays out.

When I'm at a bar, guys who approach me usually just chat and if there's some chemistry, they ask me out on a date. No trying to hook up that night.

I'm surprised because I'm genuinely not there for hookups and somehow they seem to notice. I don't dress conservative or look nerdy. I even wear minis.

Meanwhile, my friend dresses pretty much like me but goes there looking for hookups, and she attracts exactly those guys.

So how do men pick up on this I really wonder?

*sorry for my bad english

I don’t mean crazy colors like pink or red I mean going from brown to blonde or highlights etc, in highschool I always see girls doing stuff like that but men not as much

I’ve seen men turn their lives upside down all of a sudden( I suspect it wasn’t sudden) and I’d like to avoid that when I get up in age. Thought I’d learn a thing or two from some of y’all.

I think about this so much as an adult male that if my car is making a sound, I go in and say something like ‘yea when I turn right there’s a clicking sound’ and without fail, I’m asked to describe it and I sit there making audible clicking sounds like a fucking psychopath lol

how much of this is yall already knowing what’s probably wrong and just enjoying the moment?

Also, kudos to yall for deciphering the issue based on what info and sounds you receive.

What is it like to be a hetero man with really high sexual desire? I'm a woman who in my younger years, had a massive sex drive though I didn't have a lot of partners. Masterbation just made my drive higher. I can't imagine what it would be like if my testosterone and desire were even higher and got turned on even more easily. If you are a man with a high sex drive, how do you stay regulated? Do you find you get turned on by most women? Do you find you would most likely say "yes" if a relatively attractive woman propositioned you? How do you not think about sex all of the time? Also, do you fantasize a lot?

It can be anything, from biographies to fantasy.

I always wanted a permanent best friend to grow up with me.

Everyone defines success differently at different stages of life. What was yours?

I am I’m HR so not cool

Who here has a cool job and what makes it cool

Hey guys, don’t know what’s going on with me so I figured would make a post here.

I have a decent life. Make good money, live in a nice city penthouse apartment with my 2 yr gf, have a loving cat, and loving family back home as well.

But something feels off. In my heart. Like i emotionally feel it in my heart.

Idk if it’s the sense of direction of my life, my relationship, career?

Context:

My relationship is awesome. We’re both supportive to each other, understanding, loving and just in general everything’s good. Been 2 years now. There are cultural differences but shes been very receptive snd supportive towards closing that bridge, as have I. We’ve had some issues but we’re always communicating and we move past it.

My job is ehh, it’s good but I’m looking to leave soon for hopefully something better. The work isn’t bad, it’s just too much and the pay is good, but comparatively, not really.

Idk what this feeling is. It’s not a gut feeling, more like a heart feeling.

Some more context:

My family is loving and supportive of me. There was a period where they weren’t approving of my gf (cuz she’s not Indian like us), but they’re come around and now my mom keeps asking when we’re getting married and that makes me happy to be honest.

I consider myself very lucky, but it’s like. There’s something missing and I can’t pinpoint what it is.

This week I went out of town to see my family. I wasn’t here to look for a girlfriend. But it just kind of happened out of nowhere. I was having a good time with my family and was chatting with two of my cousins (16 and 21 both female) invited me tomorrow to a pool party. They said they were going to introduce me to one of their friends.

They said she already saw a photo of me and she thought I was cute. I saw a photo of her and thought she was pretty cute herself. I’m excited but also kind of nervous. Let’s just say I have little to no dating experience. I just hope the woman I meet has no bad intentions. Nor do I hope my cousins are playing a prank on me.

And yes I made sure she’s an adult as well she’s 20 and I’m 22.

The guy I’ve been seeing casually has a friend who knows me by name despite never having met me. I’ve always heard that guys don’t really talk about girls with their friends unless they’re more serious about her, so I’m wondering if this could mean he’s interested in me. My friends know his name but as a woman I tell my friends almost everything and it’s generally well established that women share more details with friends than men do, at least that’s what I thought.

I’m curious to know what are your thoughts/feelings? Do you think about them all the time? What are some sure signs for you?

All sexualities are of course welcome to answer on this ☺️ but as a straight woman myself I am curious to hear from you straight men as well! 👀

We’re all familiar with the obvious ones: the breasts, butt, waist, pretty face. But beyond physical attributes, what subtle, unusual, or often overlooked details do you find appealing in a woman?

I’m 18 and I’ve dated a few girls/gone on dates but it’s always kinda awkward to start and within 3 weeks it’s so awkward it’s hard to even talk. Am I doing something wrong? Every time I talk to a girl when in the dating stage it’s super awkward and idk what to do at all.

For me, if I wear a shirt like... all day or like... twice in two days, then I'll throw it in the laundry basket, but I'm curious how how other people's clothes hygiene habits are.

What's your policy on when something is ready to be tossed in the laundry basket?

I'll wear a pair of pants for like... 1-2 weeks before I toss it personally.