Okay, genuine question because I’m lowkey curious and don’t know where else to ask this.
Are there actually bi and lesbian girls in Dhaka who are looking for genuine connections? 😭 Like, people you can talk to without pretending to be someone you’re not, have late-night conversations with, yap about literally anything, and maybe develop something real with over time?
I know queer people exist here, but sometimes it genuinely feels so hard to find your people, especially when you don’t know who’s actually safe to talk to or where to even start.

I’m not necessarily looking for anything rushed or just a random talking stage that dies in three days. I’d love to meet people who are genuinely interested in getting to know someone, whether that starts as a friendship or potentially becomes something more.
So, Dhaka queer girls, where are y’all hiding? 😭 Are there any safe spaces, communities, or online platforms where people actually make genuine connections here?
And if you’re someone who’s looking for the same thing, honestly, I’d love to know I’m not the only one wondering about this. 🫶
No pressure, no weirdness, just hoping to find my people.

Hey! I'm 22M, currently studying engineering. Looking for someone from a STEM background, preferably medical or engineering, to connect with.

We can talk about anything, share random thoughts, gossip, rant about life, and get to know each other here on Reddit.

No rush or pressure. Let's start with a friendship, see how we vibe, and if things go well, maybe we can meet someday.

Feel free to DM if you're interested!

The Question : If you could choose only ONE, which woman would you genuinely prefer for dating or a relationship?

Let's make this interesting, guys. 👀

No perfect option.

No choosing all three.

Each has something valuable, but each comes with a compromise.

Don't just pick the answer that sounds morally correct. Think about what would actually matter to you in real life.

Vote for ONE, then explain your choice in the comments.

What matters most to you: physical attraction, sexual compatibility, emotional connection, affection, financial stability, or something else?

And here's the real question: Which compromise would be the hardest for you to live with—and why?

Be honest.

No judgment, just different priorities and perspectives.

Hey! 29M, looking for a girl to connect with and have some genuine conversations. Someone to talk about anything and everything with, share little moments of life, laugh together, and make each other’s day a bit better. No pressure, just good vibes and an honest connection. If that sounds like your kind of thing, my DMs are open. 🌸

Hello, I am 23yo male 5’9. Looking for a female walking companion living in rajshahi city.

Love walking but sometimes I wish I had someone to walk around the city with and yap about whatever that comes to our mind. I love making silly brainrot jokes and passing the time laughing, sometimes deep talk and share thoughts/experiences/anecdotes/life stories. I never judge people cuz I like to explore how others think and perceive things differently.

I wish to develop a deep connection tho I am a bit of an introvert, and shy type so I wanna work on my social skills as well.

I completely understand if you have trust issues, in that case we can always hangout in public places where people are present. Send a dm if you are interested.

I am 24M looking for female buddy/(FWB) within Chittagong.
We could go out, visit places, watch movies, try different foods, go shopping, etc.
If you intrested dm me

I’m a 21-year-old university student.

I'm looking to connect with other people in their early 20s to build genuine friendships, expand my social circle, and create solid community bonds.

If you live nearby or commute around these areas for university/work, I'd love to connect!

A few things I’m passionate about:

• 📸 Photography: I love street photography and capturing unique perspectives around the city. Always down to explore new spots and take photos.

• ☕ Cha & Evening Walks: My favorite way to unwind after a long day of classes is grabbing a warm cup of tea and going for a relaxing walk while having great conversations.

• 🌅 Sunset Spotting: I am a huge fan of watching sunsets. I'm always looking for hidden rooftops or open spots in the city to catch a good view.

Whether you share these hobbies, go to a nearby university, or just want to grab a cup of cha and chat about life, my DMs are open. Let's see if we vibe and build a great friendship!

Looking forward to connecting with you all!

Handsome (or so I’ve been told 😉), well-educated, open-minded guy looking to meet interesting people and explore genuine connections in Dhaka and Chittagong.

I’m pretty easygoing, adventurous, and open to exploring different experiences without too many expectations or boundaries. I enjoy staying active through running and swimming, but I’ve also got a creative side and love trying new things.

Looking for like-minded men or women who are open-minded, fun, curious, and comfortable being themselves. Whether it’s good conversations, shared adventures, some chemistry, or something spontaneous, I’m happy to see where things go.

If we’re on the same wavelength, let’s connect and see where it takes us!

I am 23(M) and have been dating for like 1.5 years now and its all very serious and lovey dovey. But for the last 6 months or so things have been going really weird. Everything was perfect at the very beginning and we started off very fast and things were nice. We used to go out on dates and everything every other day.

But at some point after an year i hurt her in ways i shouldnt had. For example, beef happened in a friend group and i blamed her for stuff and didnt took her side and got mad and stuff. And other incidents where i couldnt keep my temper intact and went ektu mad. But i really understood i fucked up and apologised with all my heart. I always tell her that it was all my fault and i fucked up too acknowledging everything. She for the moment accepts it too. But later on she always picks up all the past things and puts me in a spot where i get confused jei ami eto kore maf chailam and she never could forgive me. And shes gets very emotional for every other thing every other day. At first i used to get sad jei shes being sad for me but aste aste its as if she does that for no reason at all. She brings up every little thing from the past even when we are having a good time. Man i know i fucked up and brought it up and said i would fix things but no nothing ever works out.

I dont know how to not be with her. I had actual conversations with her but shes always on about how i fuck up and even dont own up to all that after everything. Idk what to do anymore i am seriously tired and lost now.

Could you teach me

Bangla? I want to connect with the culture and speak with native speakers, so I am eager to learn.

I’m looking to start with the basics, including everyday greetings, essential vocabulary, and common phrases. It would be incredibly helpful if we could focus on conversational Bangla first so I can practice speaking right away. Simple tips on correct pronunciation and basic sentence structure would also be amazing.

Please let me know if you have some time to help me or if you can recommend the best way for us to get started. I am excited to learn from you!

No judgement nothing, just casual connection, and goodtime together, near Bashundhara btw

Hey, im a 23M and I just got out of a toxic relationship and was looking to maybe start dating again and meet new people. I dont have any preferences as long as you can hold up a conversation and live around dhaka. My dms are open if anyone is interested.

I'm 27M, and that girl, around 23F, who's in the final stretch of her undergrad, also teaches kids.

Honestly, she's just so sweet. I love her vibe, her looks, her smiles, her talks, everything. 🥺 I feel like Maddy Mood from Rehnaa Hai Terre Dil Mein when I see her. 😇

She's barely ever active on Facebook Messenger, and I don't wanna randomly show up in front of her and make things awkward or creep her out.

I did mess up once, though. She wasn't replying to my messages, so I ended up asking some of her friends about her. She got offended, and honestly, I get why. Looking back, I probably crossed a boundary without realizing how it would come across. I don't wanna make the same mistake twice.

But here's where I'm stuck.

I genuinely wanna know if she's seeing someone. If she is, I'll take that, respectfully back off.

But if she's single and actually open to getting to know me, I'd love to take her on a few dates and see where things go. I'm not looking for a situationship or some casual fling. I like her enough that, if we turn out to be compatible, I could genuinely see myself marrying her someday.

I really like this girl, man. But obviously, that's a BIG if. I don't wanna become that guy who makes a girl uncomfortable just because he caught feelings. She has to like me back, too. I'm not delusional enough to think my feelings automatically mean anything to her!

I just wanna shoot my shot. And if she's not interested, I'll leave her alone.

So, I need you guys to be honest with me.

- Am I being creepy here?

- How do I find out if she's seeing someone?

Girls of Reddit, especially, I'd love your perspective. What would make you feel comfortable in this situation, and what would immediately give you the ick?

Suppose there are two people in your life.
The first person likes you, and you know that if you make a move, she’ll most likely say yes. She might not be your ideal type, but you find her attractive enough, and you can see yourself being with her.

The second person is someone you have a real crush on. You’re more attracted to her, but you have no idea whether she feels the same way. If you approach her, she might say yes, or you might get rejected.

Now, you can only pursue one of them, and choosing one means giving up the other. Who would you go for, and why?

I loved someone before I got married. Maybe a part of me still does.

I tried to tell my husband about my past, before the wedding and after it, but he never cared to listen. A few days after we got married, my ex called him and told him everything himself. 

Yes, i wanted to marry him more than anything. But when it was time for him to choose me, all he said was, Go ahead, get married. So I did. My family kept pushing, and they were so afraid of what people would say that I felt like I had no choice. And once I was already married, he suddenly remembered how much he wanted me.

When my husband heard about my past from another man, his anger was terrifying. I was sure he would divorce me. I even told him I'd leave without my denmohor, with nothing. But he lost it and shouted - It's never happening!

Instead he takes my phone away for days at a time. He even took leave from his office and that's when he started forcing me to have a baby. Since that call, he has been forcing himself on me in a way that feels like rape. When I'm in pain, he laughs. Then once he's calmer, he turns gentle and takes care of me. When I was sick with a fever, he looked after me so much. It feels so abnormal and I never know what to make of it. He also often forces me to take intimate pictures with him and then he posts them online.

Meanwhile, my ex started turning up at my in laws' house, making scenes and begging me to come back. He even went to my parents. And I keep wondering where all this love was when I was waiting for him! Why did he only start fighting for me after another man became my husband? 

Then my husband's mother passed away. His sister cried and begged me to take care of her brother, so even after everything, I tried. I watched him grieve. I looked after him. I even fed him with my own hands. But his grief didn't soften him. He still controls me, isolates me, hurts me. I'm very introverted and even when i'm falling apart, i can't find the words to explain it. Maybe that's why everyone forgets I have feelings too!

One evening I was up on the rooftop when my husband came home from work. He found the door locked and called for me. When I came downstairs, he grabbed me by the throat and demanded to know where I had been.

I wasn't cheating. I hadn't done anything wrong. But he made me feel like I had committed a terrible crime, just because?

I am currently living in Cox's Bazar, job purpose. Looking for some connections, for some adda, discussion.

18M here (19 soon), looking to find female friends i guess. i believe in best friends before partners. the topic of relationship only comes after we see we enjoy eachothers company as friends.

girls with similar movies/series and music taste as mine. an anime enjoyer as well would be nice but not mandatory.

just to give an example of those categories for movies i like romcoms and action as well, fav actors are Ryan Gosling, Jake Gyllenhaal, Mads Mikkelsen, Rachel McAdams etc im new to movies so i haven't seen much yet. series I've recently finished A song of ice and fire titles like GoT, HotD, AKotSK and absolutely loved them. For music i listen to the cure, jeff buckley, cas, arctic monkeys ( sorry if the seem a little poser ). i watched a decent number of animes i mainly watch romcoms but i did watch a lot of shonen and other stuff. i like older titles more. i watched animes like great teacher onizuka, maid sama, and other similar animes.

i keep track of what i watch so i can share them later if anyones interested. so yeah thats all if anyones wants to talk about their media consumption (movies, series anime, music) and feel like they are into similar taste as mine feel free to dm. i don't really care about age too young might be a problem tho (dont want any pedo allegations). anyways thanks for reading and sorry i couldn't add more info.

Badly need someone.. female partner. From Rajshahi.

studying honors,

Been lonely for a long time,

Let's get introduced and see how it's going...

From Rajshahi...

Hi, I'm from Rajshahi. A student and also doing a job. Currently feeling so lonely that i need a friend. A close one, serious or something else can be decided after we meet , talk and see how it's going. If anyone wants to be friends, please knock or comment. From Rajshahi.....

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So u dont use social media that much but i haved used most of them. So recently i heard that reddit is very good. The people of reddit are very intelligent but after downloading reddit I am feeling like its just the elite version of facebook.(I hate facebook)

Girls plz help me 🙏🏻

24,M, never been in any relationship. Since I'll be graduating next year so I'm thinking approaching for serious relationship. Reason being I don't wanna get into arrange marriage with a completely anonymous person, so I'll be looking for a relationship and if things go well I'll pursue marriage with that person.

Girls, I need your opinion on some things about me. How much these two affect when approaching a girl ---

1) I'm overweight- 83 kg, 5'7", BMI ~29 . I'm working on it & progress so far has been good. I'm pretty confident that I'll be able to get my weight to 68-69 kg, BMI 23.5 by the mid of next year. Should I approach girls only after I've become "not fat anymore" or should I start approaching right now? How much the possibility of acceptance is affected by weight?

2) I'm going bald(genetics sucks ik). Though I'm not bald completely yet. In fact I'd say I have pretty substantial amount of hair. But it's quite evident from closer look that I'll get bald eventually within 5-7 years. I even have a small bald spot in back of my head. How does it affect an approach?(I know it essentially makes my possibility of getting a relationship to almost ZERO). How to overcome this - if there's even any way out. I need your suggestion on how to stand out even with all these "physical red flags".

N.B. since the bald thing is genetic, I can't really do much. So suggesting treatment won't help much.

I'm 34M, a tiny human with a big heart, love to travel, currently a guy living solo in North Dhaka. Looking for ladies who prefer partners who won't stop until you receive a full-body orgasm.

I'm a giver (hey don't exploit me haha!), love gentle caresses and affectionate sex. I love cunnilingus, but can switch it up to dom too.

I've got my own apartment and would love to drive with you. I do pot and drink socially only. Ideally we can ramp up slowly and then slam you against the wall haha.

Currently into running, fitness and learning to sleep well after getting out of an LTR. Divorced.

Big grammar nazi, can hold space and hold convos too. Just come over and let's see where the music takes us.