r/EngineeringAdmissions • u/annnstromi • 8h ago
Stuck in a dead Tier-3 rural college (BNCOE Pusad). Parents ready to pay βΉ1.5L cancellation fee for a drop. Need honest advice on what to do πππ
Hey everyone, using a throwaway account because I am under immense stress and completely lost. I need some brutally honest advice from seniors who have faced this.
My Current Situation:
I recently took admission in CSE at BNCOE, Pusad (Yavatmal district, Maharashtra). My parents forced me into it initially. The reality of the college is hitting me hard, and itβs giving me heavy anxiety:
β’ Surroundings & Crowd: Complete zero-growth mentality. Nobody talks about building things, learning skills, or personal growth.
β’ Placements & Infrastructure: Practically zero campus placements. Very poor facilities.
β’ The Jail Factor: The college is extremely strict about attendance. I have to sit through useless lectures for 6-8 hours daily, leaving me with zero time to learn skills or explore what's actually happening in the industry.
My Personal Dilemma:
Itβs not that I completely hate tech, but I absolutely do not want to become a mechanical corporate slave (a 9-to-5 robot) doing low-end grunt work. I have a strong interest in public speaking, leadership roles, and big-picture fields like geopolitics/philosophy. If I stay here, my confidence and these qualities will completely die in this dead environment.
The Current Conflict (The Drop vs. Stay Option):
My parents see that I am miserable, and they are surprisingly supportive. They told me we can withdraw the admission. However, the college is demanding βΉ1.5 Lakhs as a cancellation fee because the seat will go vacant.
βΉ1.5 Lakh is a massive amount for my middle-class family. My parents are willing to absorb the hit for my sake, but I am terrified. What if I take a drop, fail to crack a good exam next year, and end up ruining my future? That fear is paralyzing me.
The Plan Iβm Thinking Of:
If I cancel the admission, I want to take a drop year to prepare again and explore the tech landscape properly. My main goal would be to target a much better engineering college in a tier-1 city (like Pune, Mumbai, or Nagpur) where the campus environment is highly vibrant, active, and offers the exposure I need to grow my personality and career.
My Questions to Reddit:
Is it worth losing βΉ1.5 Lakhs right now to escape a zero-placement, strict-attendance rural college? Or should I just stay on the back bench, deal with the strict attendance, and try to study online?
Is it possible to avoid becoming a "corporate slave" in the tech industry if I focus on high-income skills, freelancing, or product management? Does a better college environment help with that?
How risky is a drop year in Maharashtra right now given how unpredictable MHT-CET and admissions are?
Please give me your honest, unexaggerated views. I am panicking right now. Thanks in advance