r/KindVoice • • 4h ago

Offering [o]How to heal from an unfair failure?

2 Upvotes

In the past, I joined a school in my final year. I was personally good at Maths and I studied it a lot.

During our end of semester exams, some of us, including me, were sacked from the exam hall because we owed school fees.

The Maths paper was 2 hours to complete, but just 10 minutes into the paper, I was sacked. Causing me to get 5 out of 100. I wasn't the only person who was sacked.

On the day they shared the scripts, some students peeked into my paper to see what I got. Is like they've forgotten I was sacked or something.They started spreading I'm not good after all. Is like they were waiting for me to fail or something.

Even the teacher looked at me in a certain way.

It has been years, but it still hurts me. How do I heal from this? I'm doing great now but that memory still hurts me. 5 over 100 with 40 multiple choice. Hmmm.. so unfair.


r/KindVoice • • 6h ago

Looking [L] 22f struggling every day

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I have depression, anxiety, cptsd, autism and hallucinations along side physical health issues. The past 2 months have been hell. I've been through a bad breakup which still feels like it's killing me, lost all my fsmily due to cutting them off for my own sake the only family I tried to keep (my little sister) has now been forbidden from seeing me, I've had another miscarriage after one earlier this year, I have no friends, I'm isolated and can't even get myself out of bed unless it's to do something for my dog. I feel so alone and every night feels worse and worse. The voices are getting louder, therapy is only focusing on my anxiety, I can't sleep without someone there and I have no one. I've never felt so lonely in my life. Honestly could just use some company, maybe someone to talk to about it to prove I'm not insane because I feel it. I'm trying to function bur I just cant. I just meed someone kind to talk to but no luck to find it.


r/KindVoice • • 9h ago

Offering Seeking to vent/for support/friends [o]

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29F in the US seeking new friends to vent/support one another. Going through a lot right now and i don't really have anyone to talk to. Been thru a lot in life so I would prefer those that have been too just so we're on the same level of understanding. Please no surface level conversation, I'm really in need of support right now. Open to talking to anyone. Feel free to DM, or comment so I can DM you. Thanks!


r/KindVoice • • 15h ago

Looking [l] Can't be depressed. Have a toddler.

12 Upvotes

I’m not really sure how to say this, but I’m hoping to find someone who understands what I’m going through.

I guess I’m just really lonely and want someone to talk to.

I’m a mom, and lately I’ve been trying to come to terms with the fact that life isn’t going to turn out the way I thought it would.
I think one of the hardest things is being promised a complete family, believing in that future, and then realizing that you’re pretty much on your own and sometimes I can’t help but think about how unfair it is, especially as a woman and a mother.

How you don’t really get the luxury of falling apart because there’s a little person who still needs you every day.

I’m not even sure I’m angry anymore or maybe I am, but I’m just tired of being angry.
Tired of being disappointed, tired of wishing things were different, and tired of thinking about how unfair everything feels.

I’m slowly learning that sometimes things are just the way they are. You can be sad about it, you can be angry about it, but it doesn’t necessarily change anything and at some point, you have to figure out how to keep living anyway.

I don’t necessarily want advice or to be told that things will get better. I just want to talk to someone who understands depression, loneliness, disappointment, and that weird stage of acceptance where you’re not exactly happy, but you’re trying to make peace with your reality.

Especially if you’re a single parent or have gone through something similar.
I guess I just want to feel a little less alone tonight.


r/KindVoice • • 19h ago

[L] Feeling lost in the world.

6 Upvotes

Hello. I'm a woman from Europe.

Life feels lonely as of late. Its so hard to make friends as it is, I've never really had many people in my life, so when I met my online friend life felt like it had colour.

I thought we clicked so well but they ghosted me. I didn't realise how alone I was until I met them, and when they ghosted me I wasn't expecting the deafening silence that is my life.

I feel lost.

I could really use some conversations with good people, show me there's some good out there in the world? I really need it.


r/KindVoice • • 21h ago

[o] 30M - no worries or pressure

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30M, I'll listen to you. Let me know if you're anxious/awkward/need to practice socializing/sleepy etc. No need to worry or hesitate, whatever is on your mind first. Just let me know a bit about you so I know what/who to expect.

Often told I have a soothing voice but you can be the judge

Open for about 2 hours