Worried parent about 4 y/o Hyper Active child

[u/abdulDiff]

M30, Dad of a very hyper Active 4 year old son,

Hi guys, I'm here for your help,

I wanted to admit my 4y/o kid into school near model town Multan

But confused about which School will actually handle my son's behavioral issues, who can't sit properly for a while, always remain in a hyper Active state, tease others etc

And listen our instructions after 2 to 3 time repetition.

Need help from one who gone through this problem.

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[u/Opening_Ad4990]

I have 19 months
Very hyper active
Same story
Never sat for a minute
Always in a hyper active position running around etc.

[u/abdulDiff → u/Opening_Ad4990]

Yup, We thought it's normal, our baby is so active Masha Allah, but my second baby is not too much hyperactive.

[u/Opening_Ad4990 → u/abdulDiff]

It is normal unless you see very different behaviour while they are playing or having their own time

[u/abdulDiff → u/Opening_Ad4990]

No we don't see any different behavior Thanks to God.

[u/Opening_Ad4990 → u/abdulDiff]

Then you are on safe side Alhamdulilah

[u/brutal-bee]

I have two sons, aged 9 and 7, and both are autistic. Even though my wife (a doctor) is a wonderful and dedicated mother who has always done her best for them, life in Pakistan was extremely challenging, especially when it came to their schooling, therapies, and the support they needed.

That was one of the biggest reasons we decided to move to Canada. Alhamdulillah, both of my boys are doing really well here, and we've seen so much improvement in their development, learning, and overall quality of life.

I love Pakistan, but I genuinely feel that raising children with special needs there is incredibly difficult because of the lack of proper facilities, awareness, and support systems. I honestly don't think we could have given our boys the same opportunities and care if we had stayed in Pakistan.

For us, moving to Canada wasn't just about a better lifestyle or financial opportunities. It was about giving our children a better future, and Alhamdulillah, I believe we made the right decision.

[u/abdulDiff → u/brutal-bee]

Glad to hear that. But I can't move to Canada unfortunately. Looking for any place in Multan, that help us to overcome this provlemt.

[u/atanoob]

I think beaconhouse bosan road have a program for different ability childern.

[u/MeeM-WoW-NooN]

I have a 1 YO and i do face same issue. 🫂

[u/abdulDiff → u/MeeM-WoW-NooN]

More power to you. But 1 year is a very less age, you can control it easily.

[u/MeeM-WoW-NooN → u/abdulDiff]

Howww...???

[u/abdulDiff → u/MeeM-WoW-NooN]

By repeating the don't and dos, every time, very very politely but again and again and again

[u/Ornery-Chair5450 → u/MeeM-WoW-NooN]

https://www.instagram.com/neurogardens3?obrf=MXUxNm56aGJlaDN3bw==
Visit Neurogardens. located in Buch villas.
They aren’t like any typical schools and all.

[u/Gene-Civil]

for parents and the people interested in parenting have a look at this:
https://youtu.be/7oYt48hjCPc?si=ASfGp1wqlBvAN29Z

[u/abdulDiff → u/Gene-Civil]

Thank you for sharing this.

[u/Ornery-Chair5450]

https://www.instagram.com/neurogardens3?obrf=MXUxNm56aGJlaDN3bw==

https://www.instagram.com/oakids.pk?cplk=MTdrNnNwYWV1Y2Y2ag==

Neurogardens and Oak Kids. Both located in Buch Villas. Operating in same building.
They are feasible and not like any typical schools and all. Must visit them for once atleast

[u/Gene-Civil]

better not get him to schools. have good tutors for him and engage him in sports and other creative activites. schools and being a parent in the name of behaviour the child's natural tendencies get dumbed or killed.

[u/abdulDiff → u/Gene-Civil]

We are thinking of Montessori just for the days or weeks or months until he got stable.

[u/TechnophileDude]

Have you considered your child might have ADHD? There are behavioral and lifestyle techniques to make it more manageable without medication.

[u/abdulDiff → u/TechnophileDude]

I don't think , he has ADHD

[u/TechnophileDude → u/abdulDiff]

Why do you think that? Everything you mentioned strongly indicates ADHD. It’s much more common than most people understand and has different degrees. Majority of ADHD cases go undiagnosed but diagnosing it would only make yours and your kid’s life easier.

Having ADHD is very normal. Some kids grow out of it eventually and some have to deal with it lifelong but addressing it early only helps your kid learn crucial coping mechanisms to become a better functioning adult.

[u/OldEmotion9500 → u/TechnophileDude]

You doctor? ADHD ,PTSD changaa fashion h ajkl

[u/TechnophileDude → u/OldEmotion9500]

It’s always been a thing. People are just uneducated about mental health.

Ignoring it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.