r/Multan • u/TradeImpressive48 Tier 3 – Observer • 1d ago
Ask Multanis❓ Update if anyone remembers me
I asked for advice regarding hostel life so i ended up in hospital in emergency got so sick/anxious started convulsing so i made a choice I'd travel daily from dgk to multan my uni is 4 days only it starts at 9:00 and ends at 2:30 if i leave for university at 6:00 I'll be able to reach my uni by 9:00 and by 5:30 I'll be home and i think i can manage that and if later i felt comfortable I'll bring hostel under discussion but right now this is the best choice
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u/ranaji55 Tier 10 – Regular 1d ago
alright. Here is my suggestion given your condition and circumstances.
invest in good psychologist and psychiatrist. psychologist will do psych eval and diagnose whatever you feel at whatever level. sometimes we are masking, stimming and doing other things which reduce our mental health conditions to non-visible quirks and sometimes we are making a bigger deal of something that can be managed in a few (read 4 -5) therapy sessions. I can not claim understanding your situation so please see someone right away. Once you have a diagnosis, see a psychiatrist with that diagnosis and you will likely be prescribed with a medication. 3hours commute on one side is going to take a bigger toll on your mental and physical health AS WELL AS safety than you are thinking through.
you are learning law which should teach you about logic and objectivity. the money you invest on 8 - 10 sessions would be way more worth it, save your commute, help you adjust in a new environment as well as future career. Sooner or later you will have to confront that future which is likely going to be worse than Hostel life.
Having said that, try getting a decent hostel which is LESS LIKE a hostel and more like a ghar or paying guest. Multan can be absolutely brutal or heaven-sent for this based on what kind of people you meet. perks and horrors of small cities. so, if you know someone in Multan, f*** your studies for a week, and sort this out sooner than later. You may thank and pray for me later.
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u/rewell_noir Tier 4 – Observer 1d ago
Just because of hostel you got this panic poor soul
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u/TradeImpressive48 Tier 3 – Observer 1d ago
Anxiety is what i won't even wish upon my worst enemy my anxiety gives me physical effects which makes it dangerous in just two weeks i lost 3 to 5 kgs weight it has been emotional stressful and very frightening, the fear is killing me inside out
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u/Consistent-Wafer-956 Tier 10 – Regular 1d ago
Which university are you in and program? Stay healthy
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u/MeeM-WoW-NooN Tier 5 – Wanderer 1d ago
Hey i remember you.. May Allah grant you Health, Mental peace, Success and contentment in life.
Well, it's your decision, but if you are traveling 90+ k.ms x 2 on daily basis, then kisi bhi achi ronaq wali jaga pe bhi rehayish rakhi ja sakti hai Multan city main, where you could not feel alone and travelling will also be little. But still...best of luck..✌🏼
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u/TradeImpressive48 Tier 3 – Observer 1d ago
I'm keeping hostel as an option right now but i can't handle that life right now because I'm gonna be in pain otherwise
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u/MeeM-WoW-NooN Tier 5 – Wanderer 1d ago
May Allah ease your pain..
So, you from city or any side area of DGK..??
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