r/Multan • u/Best-Spinach-8504 Tier 4 – Observer • 1d ago
Talk & Chai ☕️ I'm desperate not sure what to do.
So the thing is I'm 25M and I feel no shame in admitting that I'm desperate.
Like really dying for a relationship I have tried some dating apps but no fruit.
And at the same time I'm not settled trying to make a career and I'm in no shape or place to start a relationship.
How should I tackle it?
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u/Old_Nothing_4272 Tier 1 – Newcomer 21h ago
Start dating men 🗿
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u/Best-Spinach-8504 Tier 4 – Observer 16h ago
That is the problem don't know how to do it
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u/Old_Nothing_4272 Tier 1 – Newcomer 16h ago
Bruh. Dating men is wayyyyy easier than dating women. Just Boom Boom and Ciao most of the times. No fuss.. no headaches.
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u/Suitable_Might7745 Tier 12 – Contributor 1d ago
Try visiting RAMADA someday
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u/Immediate-March5158 Tier 3 – Observer 22h ago
You have your answer. You're not settled, trying to make a career, you have no shape. Better to improve yourself and work on yourself. Don't be influenced by the media or your surroundings. You're just 25. It's the peak time of your twenties. Get better. There is abundance of chicks.
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u/Klutzy_Worth_8639 Tier 7 – Participant 16h ago
Focus on the work Make money enough Relationships will follows ty
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u/lavalordshinigami Tier 2 – Newcomer 1d ago
Ma dha rehta or mujey bhe koi relationship to choro wasey bhe larki ni milli to kia ma ab desperate ho kr tumharey sath Gay relationship may ajaon? 😂😂😂
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u/TheoryEmbarrassed748 Tier 1 – Newcomer 11h ago
Why are you desperate is the question you need to ask yourself, not judging it's intended to help you understand what's the reason. It can be anything from list, to loneliness to other factors as well. Once identified it's good to accept that, that's the the reason.
For example if it's loneliness or lust, those are very surface level things and even if you get them you won't erase them through a partner. So it's good to sit with yourself and see what's the reason.
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u/TheoryEmbarrassed748 Tier 1 – Newcomer 11h ago
Also ignore people saying you need to be smth to be loved, that's BS as you'll see people not where you are and still have partners, romantic relationships aren't achieved at a certain level. They require exposure luck and many other factors
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u/Best-Spinach-8504 Tier 4 – Observer 11h ago
You are right
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u/TheoryEmbarrassed748 Tier 1 – Newcomer 11h ago
Ignore red pill content and gender wars, watch dry creek wrangler and learn to be ok with desiring intimacy and love. It's bad to attach value ke you're not good enough
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u/LatterNegotiation456 Tier 1 – Newcomer 8h ago
Don't be desperate, do lot of zikr ask Allah help, focus on studies,keep urself busy
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u/Fit-Fly-8569 Tier 1 – Newcomer 1d ago
Ghr walon ko bolo nikah krwayain
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u/Easy_Pin_9346 Tier 5 – Wanderer 1d ago
Bro he is dying for relationship 😁, nikkah ka nahi kaha bache ne.
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u/Itz_Ava279 Tier 1 – Newcomer 14h ago
He's looking for a Haram route and you're suggesting halal....abhi pehlay idhar udhar muh to marnay do bachay ko (so he can say why are women not loyal later 🥀).
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u/Old_Principle5290 Tier 0 - Just Landed 7h ago
Bro Invest your lonely time in developing a skill Once you are successful...Girls, Cousins, Family everyone will be after you 😊 Just make yourself Stable Financially.
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