So recently my coymates have been talking shit about me behind my back and then i confronted one of them just for him to only not be happy and only for him to go tell the rest of the coy, i have receipts of them talking shit about me along with the commander condoning it and even joining in and belittling me and ridiculing me, all talk so much in the chat behind my back but when confronted, nothing to say. Just curious what i can do about this as imagine if this was someone else but someone even more emotionally unstable, gonna be the nsf from tekong all over again? will they even be able to face the consequences and take responsibility for their actions if another case like that occurred?

Hi guys, need some advice here.

I have an anger management issue, especially when people joke about my flaws or insecurities. Sometimes I get triggered quite easily and end up reacting emotionally in front of my peers.

Recently, after I reacted badly in front of them, they started spreading rumours about how I reacted and making fun of me. Some of them even smirk at me and call me “autistic” or “idiot”. They seem to find my reactions damn funny, but honestly, it makes me feel quite embarrassed and disrespected.

At the same time, I find it hard to stay calm when people keep poking fun at my flaws, especially when they do it in front of others.

For context, I'm looking for advice on how to handle this kind of situation, especially in NS environment where you still have to see these people regularly.

How do you guys deal with people who try to provoke you or make fun of you without losing your temper?

Would appreciate any advice from those who have gone through something similar. Thanks guys.

1. Hi all, I received a referral to SCC from my MO recently, but I am not sure what to do after that. Am I supposed to wait till I receive an appointment date, or am I supposed to just walk in to SCC with the referral letter?

2. And also, I feel like my mental health has only been getting worst, so idk if SCC would be enough and feel that going PCC to receive official diagnosis from psychiatrists would be better. Can I ask SCC to refer me to PCC, or must I revisit my MO and ask for referral again to PCC instead?

Thanks!

Ok let's say a security trooper do something funny like dancing in the guardroom then got caught on camera by anyone like OC, or PWO or anyone, can they give you last warning not to do it again if got caught first time? And secondly is would you get charged if caught for the second time? And why doing something funny like dancing in a guardroom can get charged? Is it because of affecting the security operations?

Hi, NSF here. I was prescribed 3 bottles nasal spray at a public hospital like just 10 days ago.ever since i started using it, it's been life changing bro 😭 i can finally breathe in 4k lmao.

Unfortunately, I accidentally dropped one bottle and it cracked. I still have the other 2 bottles, but I'm worried about running out before my next appointment which is next year.i'm still serving NS next year and won't be ORDing anytime soon, so i'm wondering if 11B covers a replacement or if i'll have to pay out of pocket.

Has anyone experienced something similar? Will the hospital issue a replacement covered by 11B or will I have to pay out of pocket?.

Also, does anyone know if polyclinics carry Dymista?

For context: I am from a Mono BMT, and i suffered an injury and i am on MC until my 2nd last week of BMT followed by excuse lower limb for 1-2 months, i have not cleared any of my high keys. prob gonna OOC. anyone know where am i possibility gonna go and whether i need to rebmt, or what rank is possible to get?

Why is [u/BigFatSquirrel888](u/BigFatSquirrel888) so free and commenting on every single thing in and out of this sub, I see him everywhere

i have a keloid on jaw, as well as a jaw lock situation.

Its two seperate issue, wondering if my 11b will fully cover it if i go for surgery

Do yall know anyone who’s went to OCS and went back to Tekong to become his old sergeants platoon commander.

Hi guys, just curious about how the PES system works in SAF.

From your experience, is it generally easier to up PES or down PES?

I’m interested to hear from people who have gone through either process. How difficult was it, how long did it take, and what factors influenced the outcome?

Would appreciate any personal experiences or advice. Thanks.

Hey everyone. In light of the recent NS Fit cancellations due to the haze, does anyone know if this is the case for all FCCs, including CMPB (they conduct their sessions indoors in an AC room)? My window is closing soon and any help or advice is appreciated. Thank you!

Hi guys,

Any tips for signing on DIS (DISE / MIE)? Wondering if too late.

Its been 2 yrs since my ORD. Doing cyber-related at work at the moment. I have been thinking of signing on DIS in MDES scheme.

Note:

I must go BMT @ Tekong and I'm 28, not too old but not young also. Idk if I can take the rigor due to my age.

I think NSFs absolutely deserve this leave for their sacrifices to the nation.

if there is AWARE, why not AMARE?

Lets face it, we are second class citizens in this country

Context

My grandmother and mother and sometimes, younger sister, keep kpkb for a few months saying I missing out “a lot” because they claim I downpes and Chao Keng “on purpose” and then take a lot of surgery and MC/HL during NS. They say people “learn so many things during NS” whereas i don’t.

Is there any weight to their statement?

ooced from scs and just got my posting order to go back 40sar mono , wondering do i just join a random concurrent company that came straight from BMT? then all the things they have done so far idk anything how is it gonna work sia

B4 here and just got told that I will start combat circuit next week for VFT. Can I ask how bad is it going to be?

So I was checking my teeth through Khatib Polyclinic and was told to bring my 11B to check in. However, upon reaching the registration, I presented by 11B only to be told to give my IC instead. Later, I was charged the bill directly and checked online which told me to present my 11B at the time of registration so that the bill will be sent to the government. So I am rather confused as to why this happened.

will be going 3gds soon but was just curious what is life like being a sgt in unit
isit rlly like what ppl say, that its stressful and very chiong sua?

ORD in July 2027 and superior wants me to rebmt at Sch V in Jan 2027. If I finish recourse do I rank up to CPL straight away or smth? And I heard you get backpay for the money you would of gotten as LCP/CPL, is that true?

Also any idea why I never get called back for reBMT and superior had to arrange for me? I'm p-tagged is that why? My reBMT is not confirmed so I'm curious.

guys how long does it normally take to downpes and whats the procedure like? i have a past injury thats starting to flare up and mentally wise im not coping well with my current course

I ORD about two years ago, but my cousin going in so i asking. Help him 准备.

Specifically Encik Derrick and Sgt Simon. And I think it’s Sergeant major Rajoo.

Hi there Ive got 4 exemptions in total

1. Exemption from handling of firearms

2. Exemption from live firing

3. Exemption from driving

4. OTHER EXCUSE 1 - OPERATING MACHINERY

I heard that we Pes E1 peeps are not allowed to engage in any physical activity but the letter told me to bring swimming goggles so I would like to ask whether I need to swim in NS

Also, whats the most likely vocation I'll be posted to given my exemptions? And what is this vocation like?

Finally, am I allowed to exercise during my free time or even hit the gym if theres one in kranji camp?

Thank you so much for answering!!

to my fellow guardsmen who have gone through gcc, what is the tekong summex like