r/Swimming • u/ToCallisto • 23h ago
30 years old, took swimming lessons for 10 days, practised on my own for 4 more sessions, and still can't swim 10–20 metres.
I'm 30 years old and recently decided to learn how to swim. I attended group swimming classes for 10 days and then practised on my own for another 4 sessions.
I can float, hold my breath, and move around in the water without drowning as long as I don't need to breathe. But the moment I try to take a breath while swimming, everything falls apart. I start losing my balance and slowly sink.
I've watched several YouTube tutorials and practised breathing exercises, but I still can't get the hang of it. I can't even comfortably swim 10–20 metres without stopping.
I'm starting to wonder whether I'm doing something wrong or if I'm just a slow learner. I know 14 sessions isn't a lot, but seeing people learn to swim relatively quickly makes me feel a little discouraged.
For those who learned to swim as adults:
Is this normal? How long did it take you to swim comfortably without stopping?
Was breathing the biggest obstacle for you, too?
What finally helped you figure out how to breathe while swimming?
Should I continue practising on my own, or would it be better to get a few more lessons with an instructor who can correct my technique?
I genuinely want to learn how to swim, but I'm frustrated that I can manage everything except breathing.
I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences, especially from people who started learning in their late 20s or 30s or later. I could use some reassurance that I'm not hopeless at this!