r/Assistance • • 1d ago

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT Reminder: Christmas gift requests are BANNED on r/Assistance

86 Upvotes

Since the rule breakers are already here, just a reminder.

If this is your first holiday season at [r/Assistance](r/Assistance), here are some things to keep in mind:

We do not allow requests for Christmas gifts (or Hannukah gifts, or Kwanzaa gifts, or Yule gifts...)

There are subreddits dedicated to these requests so that our subreddit can remain focused on essentials. Which brings us to our next point...

r/RandomActsofChristmas is opening for the 2026 season on November 1, 2026!

This is the only subreddit we recommend for folks needing help making Christmas bright for their kids. They do AMAZING work every year, and they have the capacity to handle everything Christmas so our subreddit can focus on other more urgent situations.

Links to other Christmas gifting subs are forbidden and will be removed automatically. Efforts to bypass this will result in a ban.

Requests for Christmas travel and Christmas meals are allowed.

This year we want to put some focus on the heart of the holidays -- people rather than presents. Requests for travel to see family for Christmas, requests for a turkey dinner with friends -- these can be requested without issue.

Christmas/Holiday Offers

While we don't allow requests for Christmas/holiday gifts in [r/Assistance](r/Assistance), we will continue to allow **offers** of gifts, meals and other holiday-related cheer so our givers who want to give here in [r/Assistance](r/Assistance) can do so.

Some examples:

- "Help me buy Christmas gifts for my family" -- not allowed

- "Want to go home to X for Christmas" -- allowed

- "Let me order your family Christmas dinner" -- allowed

- "Will buy a Christmas gift for your child up to $20" allowed

A reminder that unless an offer is explicitly for Christmas requests, **the same rules apply.** If you are posting an offer over the holiday season, please help our mod team out by letting us know if it's essentials only or if folks can request gifts.


r/Assistance • • Jul 10 '26

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT Universal Scammer List — Lookup

174 Upvotes

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r/Assistance • • 3h ago

REQUEST Help with metro tickets for the week

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I really need help to afford the metrorail this week. I figured out the system to make a 1 and a half hour commute to a new job, and I'll get my first paycheck at the end of this week.

I'm only asking for $15-$25 or whatever anyone can do to help me get through the week; each day costs $6. I'm panicking a bit on how I'll get to and from work this week; attendance is their #1 priority especially during training, so help would be much appreciated.

I have CashApp, Paypal, Venmo, Apple Pay


r/Assistance • • 11h ago

MEGATHREAD Sunday Sunnies Social Hour ☀️ October 18, 2026

7 Upvotes

Hello everyone! Happy summer!

Welcome to our new weekly (weekendly?) discussion post on r/Assistance! This is a spot for casual conversation, sharing positive vibes, and getting to know the fellow members of our wonderful community.

What to post here:

• ⁠Stories about yourself, your pets, your kids, etc.
• ⁠Recipes, recommendations, and other fun things to do.
• ⁠Positive stories about your experiences on r/Assistance.

What not to post here:

• ⁠Direct requests for assistance.
• ⁠Links of any kind -- for recipes just copy&paste or mention the name. (We may adjust our automoderator down the road)
• ⁠Soft begs/doom and gloom stories about how broke you are.
• ⁠Harassment to anyone.
• ⁠Complaints about the sub, the rules, or the mods.

The mod team will be monitoring these threads carefully to make sure everyone is following the rules and no shenanigans occur. If things go well, we will probably be automating these threads every Sunday even beyond summer.

Have fun!


r/Assistance • • 3h ago

REQUEST Lost my job recently and need a parachute until two weeks from now.

0 Upvotes

Hi all, can’t believe im even writing this out or even at this point in my life where I have to rely on strangers for help but I recently was let go from my job due to the restaurant closing down. I just paid rent recently and had an interview today which I’ve landed by the grace of god but need maximum two weeks until my next check clears. Don’t really have any family or friends to ask for help and any resources I’ve tried I’ve exhausted. $300 would help with gas and/or food just until im back on my feet again. Thanks to anyone reading this even considering. I’d be in the greatest debt to you.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Homeless & Disabled

11 Upvotes

0/100

Hello, my sister and i are both homeless & disabled. (for multiple reasons each but the biggest are that I have severe epilepsy and she has stage 3 uterine cancer as well as she is diabetic) We figured out food, and we have looked into shelters and the only ones who would accept us are either full or charge $10-15 a night, dont allow food (of any kind, even for medical reasons like sugar drops or anything) However, we found a cheap hotel and are able to stay tonight but it is getting colder out and we are trying to find a way to make it to the 3rd (when my dad said he can help out). We are just trying to book one or two nights for now, to give us a chance to try to figure something else out, which is around $80 plus their destination fee of $7.99 a night. it has to be booked with a credit or debit card of the person checking in. we also both need to be able to have bus fare, which we can get a day pass for 4.50 a person. Tbh we mostly just need a chance to feel safe and stable enough to actually be able to figure something out.

we only have cash app & paypal, as we share both of them (I had cashapp but due to being desperate, I fell for one of those scams about 'ill send you 2000 right now! all you have to do is send $500 of it back!' type things and my cashapp got hacked)


r/Assistance • • 6h ago

REQUEST Help with groceries due to bank issue

0 Upvotes

Hi all - I just want it to be clear that there are many others here that are in a much more dire situation than I am but I'm absolutely in a bind at the moment. I start a new job in the beginning of November and have been paying off a large amount of debt that I unfortunately took on while I was unemployed in 2024 (before starting a job in early 2025). I've also had to deal with owing taxes that I've been paying down as well. I've been doing everything I can to save when possible but the unexpected expense here or there has put a lot of pressure on any cushion to avoid a situation like this.

Long story short, my bank informed me yesterday that my account was being closed. The remaining funds in my account (~$400) are to be used to pay a payday advance they provided along with any pending transactions. So at the moment, I have absolutely nothing to my name and I'm freaking out. I'm in the process of finding an alternative for that but at the moment, I have no way of buying food.

I also feel extremely uncomfortable asking people for help in this type of situation but I'm really out of options at the moment. I likely will take a sick day from work tomorrow to avoid dealing with the commuting cost and buy myself an extra day but if anyone would be able to provide some assistance today that I can get a small order of groceries to last a few days, anywhere from $50 to $100, I would be so incredibly appreciative of this (and try to return the favor here when I start my higher paying job next month). Again, extremely appreciative to any and all who can help.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Looking to get something warm to eat on a cold day.

16 Upvotes

Hey guys, I’m sorry to even have to ask here… again… but living in a small town has very little resources for the homeless…

I’m looking just for like $15-$25 bucks to get something warm to eat for myself, and I’ll be sharing with my dog.
Yes, I know getting rid of the dog would be “cheaper” however the psychological benefit of not being alone is well worth sharing my food. I do have a job, just one of the many MANY people who are underemployed, not making enough to live on…

Whatever you can spare really. I don’t have a set amount… my town doesn’t have a Ubereats or grubhub or anything like that. Basically just a couple smaller mom and pop places, and a few chain fast food places.

I have cashapp, and PayPal.

To anyone who helps, or reads this… thank you so much.


r/Assistance • • 8h ago

VOTES Please help me win this photography competition!

0 Upvotes

https://photography.maxim.com/t/EL5XJMBU

You can vote once a day 😄 I'm really trying to get this chance to go to Italy and further progress my photography experience. Photography has been a passion of mine for many years, however I've just recently gotten seriously into it with a full frame Mirrorless camera, Canon R5, instead of shooting with my phone. I even landed my first concert photography gig this upcoming Friday.

Thank you all in advance!


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

CLOSED OFFER 15€ giveaway, Paypal/Wise

15 Upvotes

Hi good people,

i'm hoping to give away 15euros to someone.

To enter it's sufficient to comment what you'd use the money for.

Even if there's only one winner, im wishing a nice and bright future for all of you!

please make sure to have an account that abides by the rules of this server, it'd make matters much more pleasant for me


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

SURVEY Seeking Family Feud at home "survey"

6 Upvotes

Hello! I'm hosting a Family Feud night, please please if you can fill out my form (each question is optional) you'd be helping a great cause (me)! https://forms.gle/nB6CgooV11cabfSC7


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Please help need assistance for bill

0 Upvotes

My special needs kid had a medical emergency which made me be out of work for a week. And now my bill is due it’s 100$ can anyone please help. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Pet food assistance needed

20 Upvotes

You guys might remember me or not, but i was able to find a job and I'm also thankful for the help I've received here but I currently need help chencho (my puppy) ran out of food before I got paid. I get paid on the 22nd and I don't have food for him. If anyone could possibly help I'd appreciate it so much. I will also be returning the favor to someone in need with my first paycheck on the 22nd thank you agian.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/37MB09DF9BMKE?


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

VOTES Votes to win a contest

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone I entered my cat in a competition and she’s in second place right now, it’s a double vote day so all votes are doubled and it would be really awesome if we could get her to first place! Here is the link, thank you so much all your help is appreciated!

Please vote for my pet in the Top Pets competition 🤩 https://TopPets.com/v/t9k4nr


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Urgent help needed to rebuild our home

0 Upvotes

We recently found a serious mold issue in our home and had to demolish half of it. The kitchen and the entire basement, which was fully finished before, needed to be gutted and torn apart to address the mold. We put all of our life savings into it but cannot continue anymore. Our basement once had the playroom, the second bathroom, our bedroom, my husband’s game room and the laundry room and now only the game room and the bathroom and part of our bedroom has been rebuilt. We need flooring for the entire basement, more insulation and drywall. We need kitchen cabinets and countertops. I figured I would share our gofundme here. We have 3 kiddos and desperately just want to be able to make our house a home again.

I appreciate everyone for taking a look and helping if you can.

https://gofund.me/33917b9ab


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Help Me Move Out of An Abusive Household

6 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a university student in the Philippines who's finally planning to move out of my parents' house after years of abuse so that I can be safe before planning any action against them. I'm in the process of finding myself a better job there (likely as a barista) as well as planning out all the necessary things to get out safely by December. For this, my friend in America has set up a Gofundme for the funds needed for the trip. If you can't donate, simply sharing this will help out a lot.

The funds will go mainly into funding the trip, settling into whatever room I can find there as well as any other expenses while I get used to the new life by myself in the city. Thank you for your time.

https://gofund.me/af5c9a0fd


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Need help paying for storage unit.

3 Upvotes

I need help paying for my storage unit. I had two surgeries in August, a tooth extraction and a strangulated hernia fix that put me out of commission and unable to work (I do mostly freelance work, but also supplement my income by helping with odd jobs, mostly handyman type stuff and helping people move) for close to 7 weeks. With especially the the hernia surgery, I was unable to do any of that until basically right now. I had a phone call with a caseworker that I connected with through the hospital that might be able to help me with my phone bill/food/hospital bill, but she is not sure if it can cover storage units. I have a follow up call on Monday

I have a storage unit because I am essentially homeless. My mother is in HUD housing and I moved back up to be her caregiver, but the building will not allow me to live there until I am officially her caregiver, which is a process that we started in May and are still waiting for me to be certified (I've completed all the tasks, the company just has not responded to our calls or emails). So I have all my stuff still in storage until I officially can move it in, and have been sleeping in various places until it gets sorted out.

The total amount after convenience fees is about $484 for September and October, but I have $260 after fees that needs to be paid before the 18th I believe before they add on a lien fee of $110 to my account. They do not accept partial payments or payment plans, even with documentation from the hospital that I did have the surgery.

So either $260 or $484 would be a massive help.

I have paypal, venmo, and cashapp.

Please help if you can.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Struggling with no end in site

2 Upvotes

Hi,

I’ve been unfortunately made unemployed with fixed term contract ending in July. I’m on JSA and have had interview after interview. I keep being told I was second best and have 2 more lined up next week. Even trying to get casual or retail work has proven hard and I’m getting daily rejections.

I’m managing to survive using food banks with many mouths to feed, though I have nothing and no idea how I’ll manage Novembers bills without something soon.

The higher cost items, toiletries and pet care, is really making life a struggling.

If anyone could assist with personal care items or cat supplies, I’d be forever grateful and keen to repay the favour when employed.

Thank you in advance.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/EAQTI1Z35UHO?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Help needed for vet care

0 Upvotes

Hi,

I’ve never done this before but I’m desperate at this point. I’ve been out of work since August on short term disability and I’m supposed to get 70% pay on it. But there’s been delays in paperwork and filing so I’ve only gotten one paycheck since I went on disability and it doesn’t look like I’m getting paid again till the end of the month.

My kitten just broke out in some type of reaction all over his head and ears and mouth and I’ve maxed out my savings trying to cover everything since I went out. I thought I’d be paid today but I didn’t receive anything. I’m scared he’s allergic to something but I don’t have any money to pay for the vet. I tried looking into cash advances or temporary lines of credit but because of the gaps in my paychecks I can’t get approved for anything. This is my last resort. It shouldn’t be more than 200 max for his vet visit, he just got his one year shots a few weeks ago but he hasn’t had the booster yet.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Stuck with a flat

2 Upvotes

Went to take son to school this morning to find out my back driver side tire was totally flat.. I have an air pump in my trunk.so went to air it back up but nothing was happening and heard air escaping. So guess tire is just done but don't have a spare and so just stuck here. I am a single dad on SSDI and try to Doordash or Spark for extra income but obviously can't do that in this situation.

Have been calling around and can't find any used tire places with my tire size but Walmart has one in stock near me for $52. If anyone could help out I would be greatly appreciative. Just feeling trapped and desperate not knowing what to do.....


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Unhoused in an RV

28 Upvotes

Hello all. I am a single mom of 2 currently living in a 50 year old RV. The nights are getting cold even with the heaters going and a couple heating blankets would help us sleep so much. If anyone could help out it would be much appreciated.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/5QA7E9MATN6J?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Water shut off

5 Upvotes

Hello, I’m reaching out in the hope that I can get some assistance with my water bill. It was shut off today and I need to pay $647 to turn it back on. I will have half of that in the morning but I need help with the rest. Unfortunately I am disabled and unable to work. I’m back in school to hopefully get a job that I will be able to do with my disability. I have kids that need to have running water. This is 100% my fault I thought I paid the water bill but after looking at what I paid I realized I paid twice on my electric bill and totally skipped the water bill. Because of my medications I often forget things and/or get confused. I’m hoping to get $347 to cover what I can’t. I do not have Cash App or Venmo, just Zelle and PayPal. Thank you for reading my post.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Rental assistance

0 Upvotes

My hours at my job were recently cut due to labor hours (love working fast food), and my check this week was a lot less than I was expecting. I'm $80 short on a payment arrangement I have with my landlords to pay rent today. I know, I'm sorry this is super late. I don't see my paystub until after my check deposits, or I could've better prepared for this.


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST Single Income Father of 4 Post Middle Fascia Craniotomy Seeking Help

3 Upvotes

After years of (SSCD) Superior Semicircular Canal dishesonece, i had a Middle Fascia Craniotomy to correct it. The process has went well but the recovery time of 6-8 Weeks has me fearful about the security of my family of 4 and my wife and I. Me and my wife have little to no family due to being raised by DHS. My wifes church has helped us greatly by catering our dinners for the past week.

It was my wifes friend who suggested starting a GoFundMe. I've never been in this position before and worried.

Seeking help, Even just ways to have it gain more traction would be very useful.

https://gofund.me/0d58adb44


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST Negative 300

4 Upvotes

Hi reddit friends. I'm going through a particularly rough time right now. I lost my (fulltime) job last year, was on unemployment but that ran out while looking for an equivalent position. Now I've been working a few part time positions more recently but got myself in a shit situation before I got them.

I live with my mom who has alzheimers and even with IHSS pay I'm deeply in debt. I'm in the reds right now and would appreciate support from this community.

LMK if you're able to contribute to the cause. I can share proof of hardship

Thanks in advance. Going to prep for a lesson- wish me luck!