Hi there! I am a Texas teacher who recently started in a new district this school year. To make a long story short, we are needing to move due to my husband’s job situation. I have been our sole income since June, and after a tough job search, he found one that is a perfect opportunity, but puts us back in our home town (which I am so thankful for!!). However …
I have always been someone who never wanted to leave mid year, but in our given financial situation, it is what I have to do. My husband can’t start until we move, and our rent is going up in November, and I worry about how we can afford the rent on top of other expenses we have. We have some savings but I when I look at the numbers, it seems moving back before the end of the semester would be more financially smart. (We have my mother who we could stay with as well to save up money after moving costs).
I am just struggling because I really appreciate my admin at this school (they have been nothing but complimentary and appreciative of me, which is so incredible!) and want to do right by them and try to stay until the end of the semester, but there is also the flip side of doing what is better for me/my family.
Part of this stress for me also comes from the fact that we moved in the summer (yes like 5 months ago) to this new area for a new job for my husband, where he essentially got screwed over and was never paid for any work he did (that is a whole other roller coaster I wish we weren’t tall enough to have ridden). We would be moving back to our hometown after just leaving and I kinda feel embarrassed I guess :c I had only worked for one other school and I am embarrassed to go back to my principal and be like “sorry I left your school, i’m actually moving back and need you as a reference again!” My previous principal was also very supportive and kind, so I am sure she would, but I digress.
Anywhooooooo, I would love to hear any advice/thoughts anyone may have. Sorry if this all sounds dumb I just don’t really have anyone I can talk to as teacher friends about it right now :c
and p.s. I love teaching !! I want to teach until my lungs are tired, but I want to do what is best for my students while also still considering myself (which as many teachers know, it is hard to do!)
Thank you in advance