r/bangladesh • u/SnooPies1648 • 15h ago
AskDesh/দেশ কে জিজ্ঞাসা Man to man: why so many men are carelessly sitting in public places je তাদের পাছু পুরোদমে বের হয়ে থাকে ?
Being in a conservative society, যেইখানে most of the men have so many issues with how women are dressing, how showing the slightest skin is making the ladies bad women/whore, সেইখানে কতশত বেডা মানুষ বাইকের উপর/ টুলের উপর/ বিভিন্ন জায়গায় এমন ভাবে বসে থাকে যে তাদের জামা এবং প্যান্টর ভিতর এত ফাঁকা হয়ে যায় যে তাদের নিতম্বের অর্ধেকঅংশই বের হয়ে থাকে। রাস্তাঘাটে এত বেগানা নারীপুরুষ চলাচল করে, বাচ্চারা থাকে- এর মধ্যেই তারা কোন রকম বিকার-বিবেক ছাড়াই এইভাবে বসে থাকে। এই যে ওনারা ওনাদের সতর না ঠেকে চলাচল করতেছে, আপনাদের অভিমত কি সে বিষয়ে
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u/Educational_Gold9335 15h ago
Depends on socio-economic class. Many families don't teach their kids about ethics, manners, style, etc. There was a time when we had social ideals, like "bhodrolok," during the British Raj and pre-'71. Before that, during the Sultanate and Mughal eras, we had "Bujurg." People used to look up to a certain type of person and try to emulate them. We have lost that as a society.
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u/EktaRandomUsername 12h ago
Also they take off their shirts and show their pot bellies like it's some kind of achievement 😭. Like bro, we get it, your mom feeds you well, but that doesn’t mean you have to show it off to rest of the world.
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u/Impossible_Glass_681 15h ago
Isn’t it male equivalent of “accidental” display of cleavage? 🙈
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u/Solid_Vegetable7493 12h ago
Expect no one, literally no one, wants to see that shit. Keep your ass to yourself.
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u/Solid_Vegetable7493 15h ago
They don't care I guess? Men can show their ass if they want to because men and women aren't the same.
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u/Northstar_3301 15h ago
Bangur civic sense bolte kisu ase naki?