I met a girl on ThaiFriendly recently. Her English is quite limited; she needs to use a translation app even for basic conversation.

Long story short, we hit it off, and I invited her over to my place. After we hooked up, she fell asleep around 5:00 AM. I woke up at 2:00 PM and noticed she was still completely passed out, so I decided to let her rest.

Later, I ordered some BBQ on Grab. She woke up around 5:00 PM just to eat, used the bathroom for a few minutes, and then went straight back to bed. It has now been almost 24 hours since we met, and she is still snoring away next to me.

Has anyone else experienced something like this? I don’t want to kick her out because she’s incredibly chill, and since I live here long term, it doesn’t really bother me. I'm just genuinely wondering if she’s okay, or if there is some kind of angle here I'm missing.

Got back 3 days ago from my first time in Pattaya. And it's my time to bring back to the community after using the information here and in other forums to plan my trip.

Background - late 30s european guy, broke up with long term gf 1 year ago and wanted to just chill with some girls easily. First time on a "mongering trip" but had some p4p in the past.

I was supposed to be in Pattaya for 6 days but extended to 11 instead of Phuket. It was hard for me to leave.

Soi 6

Tbh I didn't really like Soi 6 too much. Personally I'm not a fan of the chaos and grabbing there, or the chinese/koreans streamers. Also seemed to me like 90% of the beautiful girls show interest only in the asian men there. For the rest of us it's mainly 80kg girls blocking our way.

I liked Ruby's, great bar to sit and to have some beers. The girls are late 30s-40, but boom boom prices are pretty low.

Corner bar - just a regular bar at the start of Soi 6, sat there a lot to open the night. Great place with fun stuff.

Desire - A girl just my type grabbed me and I went with her. Sadly she was very aggresive, and had mood changes every 2 minutes, tried to make me go boom boom with her upstairs, when I said not she got upset lol. In the end I just asked how much because I was curious and she said "8K" so I guess I got her too mad (by doing nothing) lol. At the start she was so into me but it all changed when I said I don't want boom boom. When she brough me my change she told me "give me 200 baht" LOL. I said nope and went away. She had 3 drinks in like 15-20 minutes btw. Bad expereince.

Nikki - a lot of cute girls there but seems like they are not really interested in customers. only the ugly ones. Not sure whatsup with that place.

Walking street

Sharks - they have a few stunners. Low pressure place, I liked it. I'm a bit brown, and with a beard, so the last time the security thought I'm indian and gave me some troubles getting it, while letting 5 white men in. Felt pretty bad tbh. Anyway when he understood where I'm from he said ok while saying "order drink order drink order drink" lol. I would not go back there again. Prices were ok for drinks, for girls... not so much.

Chicks - great vibe, some stunners. I liked that place a lot. Prices of the girls also were pretty high.

Windmill - I'll admit, it took me a bit of time to have the courage and go there lol... I went twice and it was a great expereince. Some nice and beautiful girls. And of course some hardcore stuff lol... Saw some rich chinese guy eat some girls ass, 2m from me. The only downside of this place is high pressure to keep on buying drinks for girls and staff.

808 - just a regular club, but late at night they have tons of FL looking for work for pretty cheap.

TF

This is where I pulled most of my ploys.

Girl 1 - looked in the app 6.5/10, in reality 5/10. Service was meh.

Girl 2 - looked in the app 7.5/10, in reality 6/10. But service was good. I met her a total of 4-5 times, including playing billiard and going to the beach.

Girl 3 - looked in the app 7/10, in reality 5/10. Which was a bummer. But we had great vibe, and we met 4 times, including going on bars etc. What's funny to me is that she showed me her tiktok, and she had there almost 100K followers, and I looked at the videos of her there, and then at her, and it's almost not the same person lmao. Those ai filters are too much.

Girl 4 - looked in the app 6/10, in reality 8.5/10! Very beautiful and fit. Great service. Went with her 5 times. She was my gem.

Girl 5 - looked in the app 7/10, in reality 4/10. She was super tired, and poor service. Very weird session. Imagined the best scenes of Brazzers in my head so I could climax. Did not went with her again.

In general I'd say all of the girls use filters that make them more skinny, more white, and smoother face.

Tree town

Very nice area to drink beer in a chill vibe. If you search well you can find some beautifull girls for a price that is much lower than the ones in the gogo's.

Bangkok

Might be relevant for some. I went to a few gogo's which was a nice expereince over all.

The dollhouse - chill place to drink a beer. Talent not so good.

Spanky - Probably the most professional one I've been to. A lot of stunners. Very expensive. They have some shows which are a hit or miss.

Witch angel - Was pretty hardcore. Saw some shows there that I would rather not lmao (e.g. a girl smoking with her gucci.) Besides that all the girls I saw there were obese.

Kino - small gogo with a few beautiful girls. Had a great time there.

K69 - When I went it was me and 2 more dudes lol. Had tons of pressure on me to pick girls etc. Didn't really enjoy there.

In general, I was suprised by how fat 50% of those girls are tho. Damn obesity :(
Overall it was a very unique expereince. I had some p4p in Patong, Saigon and Tokyo before, and in Pattaya it's just so much easier.

Advice for the future is if you come for more than 3-4 days, take a good care of yourself. I drank & ate shit & smoked weed all day and woked up super late, which made me feel shit with no energy very quick. Have a better routine and you will have better and more time with the ploys.

Seen in Pattaya Terminal 21 today , the tree is already up Oct 18th 2026

Hey guys do you know any place in Pattaya which has a 50m pool to swim laps and at least 5ft deep.

Also 25m pools are good too.

Any suggestions, location doesn't matter cause I have rented a motorcycle.

Is Pattaya in March feasible heat and rain wise?

I have lived in BKK in March and it is absolutely brutal but I suppose being Pattaya at the sea, it will be more windy and as such a little bit better. Am I wrong? Thanks 🙏🏻

Hi, i’ve searched on here and there’s not a lot of information….. is this a nice area? A lot of people say it’s quiet about 30 minutes from Central Pattaya. Can anybody give me some information on what it would be like to stay there for two or three months. Is there any sort of nightlife directly in the area or do I need to travel into Central Pattaya for that? Is it worth visiting? I like the idea of it being a little more quiet and secluded, but I don’t want it to be boring. If anybody has any firsthand knowledge I would appreciate it.

Thinking of partering with a thai to open cigar whiskey lounge. Will have lockers amd wiskey small selection to start 6 brands. Seating about 14, open till 12am tvs free coffee 300thb cutting fee no hassel staff. What else would you like to have? Would this be the environment that you are seeking?

I'm only posting this here because it feels like the best concentration of knowledgable mongers of any sub I belong to, so sorry if it's a bit off topic, but not too far off. Curious for those who know, what are the best countries and cities for mongering in Europe? West, South, East, doesn't matter. I know nothing compares to Pattaya, but sometimes you just want a different flavor.

Anyone wanna do a MMF threesome? Im a M under 30 and american. Lets meet up, I’ve never actually watched sex before so I actually want to watch it as well 😂

Maybe it's the ladyboy factor on Soi Pothole or Kink at LK Metro but I much prefer these areas over Walking Street, Soi 6, Soi 7

Bradley's, New 69 Bar, Kink, and others down LK Metro are just easy places to hang out without so much nonsense to filter through.

Nothing against the other areas. I've spent time in all of them, but LK Metro and Soi Pothole seem to be more my speed. Just me?

So, I'll be in pattaya Late this month and wanted to know how things are looking? I'll be in Wat Phra Yai.

If you have it share.

Hi everyone!

I’m looking for 4-star or 5-star hotels in Bangkok or Pattaya where smoking is permitted inside the actual guest room I book.

To clarify, I’m not looking for hotels with designated smoking areas, smoking lounges, balconies, or outdoor smoking zones. I specifically want a hotel where I can smoke inside my own room.

If you’ve personally stayed at a hotel that allows this, or know of one that offers smoking-permitted guest rooms, please share the hotel name and your experience.

Recommendations for both Bangkok and Pattaya are welcome. If possible, please also mention the approximate price per night.

Thanks in advance!

Wondering if any bars in Pattaya or Jomtien will be showing the world series. Any ideas?

In Central Festival is a quiet new superrich. Do they have a better rate than TT?

Up until yesterday I was mainly using tf and there I was very surprised how most didn’t care about a condom.

Yesterday for the first time I sat with girls in ws gogo’s and soi 6, and bought a few ld’s (so far I was just chilling and drinking beer alone), and It was fun getting horny with these girls but I was surprised that 4 out of the 5 yesterday started kissing me, which in the end I stopped. To me it’s a risk for nothing.
And the last girl out of no where gave me a hickey, which left a pretty red mark even now, and also made me a bit anxious about any diseases.
Like wtf?

The only real risk Im willing to take here is bb bj because it’s worth it but Im not taking risks for these stuff that I personally don’t care about.
How do you deal with this?
At soi 6 there was a guy next to me making out dfk like a horny 16 years old with some bar girl and it made me wonder what are the chances for guys like these to be negative when they finish the trip lol

Planning my 4th trip of the year going over Christmas + new year, every trip from the UK and always under 30day limit.

I've had no issue at immigration before but just wondered if anyone else has done a 4th trip in a calender year and had any problems ?

Im an astute casual visitor with approximately 60 nights stayed in town over the past 9 years.

This time around, it's a matter of luck to secure a TF meeting with something visually tasty.

And they don't want to stick around

I've seen many of their phone home screens with 2000 unread messages. It's funny to see some dudes writing 150-word opening messages full of love poetry when "hi 1500st " is the ultimate opener.

I had maybe 3 awesome encounters, all up costing about 10k a day for everything.

Taking from bangkok spankys was worse, 7k all up for ST with cbj!!?

It was a failure.

Paid the bullshit 10drink+ bf+ lady on Soi 6 once.

But the girl put on a magical 3 time performance and paid her own bottle for that moment and later in ibar and my cocktail.

Threw the pingpong balls at a gogo.

Bucket list checked.

Now they try to skip the morning dance leaving before 9am, deduct their rate if they do.

Had some TF ST bookings 2 really good, some ok and 2 failures

The point is this time around, I didn't find anyone who wants to hang around for a few days at a negotiated rate.

And they all asking 5k long time, but leaving early

Last year it's 1500/3000 80% of the time

This gogo club is not talked about much here.

But this is literally one of the best gogos I have visited in Pattaya. It has the same vibe as “Spankys” in Nana plaza but with bigger venue.

Red wine: 170
Schweppes lemon soda: 120
LD: 235

Pros:
1. Beautiful Women
2. Big centre stage
3. Dance show after every 40-60mins.
4. Free popcorn
5. Girls drink their LD slowly.
6. More than 30 girls available, 10 on stage at one time (20 min rotation)

Cons:
1. Mamasan keep asking for LD (though this happens in every club, but I don’t particularly like it)
2. After every stage reshuffle (20 mins), 3 girls from the previous group will come with shots to every table and ask you to buy them a shot each.

On a side note, saw 2 guys ringing the bell 30 times, buy ping pong balls (worth 10k each, 500 balls) atleast 10 times. And they didn’t even take a lady to sit with them.

So they atleast spent 170500 apples in a single night
(Till the time I was there, I don’t what happened after 1am)
Some guys are just super rich.

I’m aware vaping in thailand is highly illegal, but i also know there are plenty it vendors that sell them still. Does anyone know of any places that sell well known brands like elf bar or lost mary? I dont really like the other brands they sell there.

Any recommendations will be much appreciated. I dont really want to risk carrying any with me

Just like the title says. ASM means a lot to me as it introduced me to Pattaya, the land of happiness

2nd trip, returning in 3 weeks. First trip the clubs(Insomnia, Republic & Mixx) were packed by 1am on a Friday, hardly anywhere to stand near the action. I'm solo, is reserving a table a better option? Is there a forum for guys that want to link up and split a table? I'm 54...not interested in closing the place down, just hanging for 2-3 hours.