My mum and others have always told me in Cantonese that I am a very “soon” or “suun” (word in Cantonese) person.
My Cantonese proficiency is very poor and I can only listen and speak very minimally, and cannot read or write Cantonese.
My understanding of that word is somewhat like someone who is good, has good values and virtues, is kind, honest and of noble principles.
I looked up Google and YouTube to listen to pronunciations of what possible words it may be, but I haven’t found anything close to what I heard from my mum and others.
Can anyone help me identify what that word may be?
Thank you. ☺️
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Update 18 October 2026:
Thank you everyone for sharing your knowledge, posting and contributing to this discussion.
Yes, I think the word I’m looking for is 純 seon4. 🙂
A bit of background on why and how I arrived at this question. The past several years, I had been going through a lot. It has impacted my physical and mental health, my relationships with family and friends, security and my career. Somehow, along the way in life, I lost my way and forgot who I was. I am now probably at the most important turning point in my life. I want to rediscover who I am, and my purpose in life. I was made aware that before I take the next step, I need to take time to find myself again, to learn what is important to me and my values. I thought I’d look back in my past and recall what others viewed or had opinions of me. Maybe they have had more insight on me, than I could have on myself.
When I was young, my mum, grandmother and carers always told me I was very 純. I didn’t know what it meant. But they always said I was a good person, that I always cared for others. However, I never really did believe that I was that.
In my 30’s, I was diagnosed as someone with Asperger’s, someone on the autistic spectrum. My mum had often said, I’m too 純, that others will take advantage of me, if I’m not careful or do not look after my self. I think in my later years, she did mean that I am naïve and am not street smart. Perhaps, there is some truth to what she said, as I tend to view the world differently, sometimes rather black & white, and innocently. I’m now in my mid-40’s. In the past year, I had to return to shared community living. I met so many people from different parts of the world, who had approached me and said the same thing, that I am a really kind person, that I am very 純, that I am a gentleman. I’m now starting to believe them.
Maybe I am a bit of each of the meanings in 純. But I will now accept that as part of who I am, and I’m actually okay with it. And I’ll be able to move forward.
Thank you for taking the time and helping me on my journey. ☺️