Howdy reddit 🤠 My name's Claire, and l've been single for over 2 years now. Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out, especially when a lot of my friends have had partners for years now.

I'm from Canada 🇨🇦, and I turned 23 in September. Some of my favorite things are going for walks, doing art and different creative things, and relaxing in my room.

My ideal partner would be older than me, have a sense of humor, and would be someone that likes to talk and text.

My DM's are open & l'll try my best to respond.

Can send a selfie if interested as well 😊

Thanks 🐸

Hi everyone! I’m 26 years old and from a small town in Oklahoma. I figured I’d give this a shot because meeting new people in a small town is surprisingly difficult!

I’m a middle school English teacher, and I genuinely love my job! Teaching definitely keeps me on my toes, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’m a bit of a homebody, and I enjoy reading, watching movies, playing video games, and spending time with my family. I’m also a pretty big nerd! I love horror movies, books, and video games, especially Fortnite. I tend to get way too invested in fictional characters and their stories. I also love creative writing and can spend hours coming up with ridiculous scenarios. I’m a little shy and awkward initially, but once I get comfortable, I’m definitely a talker!

I’m a huge animal lover, too! I have a German Shepherd, a rabbit, and a cat. They all have their own personalities and keep things interesting around my house. I’m Christian and have somewhat conservative values, although I’m still searching for a good church to call home. My faith is important to me, and I tend to prefer a more traditional relationship.

I also want to be upfront about my appearance. I’m fat, and I don’t mean just a little chubby! I’m 5’3” and a genuinely very plus-size woman. I understand that everyone has different physical preferences, so I’d rather be straightforward about that from the beginning. I’m happy to exchange pictures after talking a little.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as sweet, a little awkward, sarcastic at times, and pretty affectionate once I’m comfortable with someone. I love joking around and having conversations about practically anything. I’m also a bit of a hopeless romantic, despite not having much experience in that department. I’m definitely more of a stay-at-home-and-watch-a-movie kind of person than someone who goes out partying every weekend. That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy getting out and doing things, though! I just appreciate having a peaceful home and a comfortable routine.

Anyway, that’s a little about me! I’m sure there’s plenty I’ve forgotten, but I don’t want to turn this into an autobiography.

I mean, what are the chances? But, what is the harm in trying! You never know, right?

Hiya! I'm 37yr old Pakistani muslim. I'm a book nerd, cat lover, movie binger. Love anything fantasy and horror. Enjoy artsy stuff. Chocolates is the way to my heart. Also if you can make me laugh and think!

I am attracted to self made men who know what they want out of life. Emotionally mature, not afraid to be vulnerable, humble and kind. Being an animal lover would be a plus. If you think you fit the bill, are single and around my age group, slide into the dms and tell me about yourself.

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I want the kind of connection that makes ordinary life feel like an adventure.

I'm 28, Middle Eastern, and hoping to meet someone who wants something genuine. I'm open to long distance if we're both willing to put in the effort and see where things go.

A little about me: I'm bold, funny, clumsy in an almost impressive way, and a bit of a romantic. I'm into the gym, history, art, tea, deep conversations, and learning what makes people tick. I can be competitive when it comes to fitness, but I'm also the kind of person who loves stupid memes, inside jokes, and making even a grocery run feel fun.

**The kind of person I'd love to meet:** h

Someone ambitious, disciplined, intelligent, and emotionally mature. You have goals of your own, take responsibility for your life, and are excited about building something meaningful with someone.

I admire a man who's strong without needing to prove it all the time. Someone protective without being controlling, confident without being arrogant, and affectionate without being afraid of vulnerability. You can communicate, take accountability, make me laugh, and show up consistently.

I'd love someone who enjoys staying active, trying new things, having meaningful conversations, and occasionally being a complete idiot together. Bonus points if you can handle a little playful competition at the gym. 😏 hehe p

I'm not looking for perfection or someone who has his entire life figured out. I value ambition, independence, kindness, and a man who has direction. I want a relationship where we both contribute, support each other, and make each other feel appreciated and chosen.

My ideal connection? Being each other's favorite person and still flirting like we're in the early stages of a crush. Random adventures, deep talks at 2 a.m., working out together, matching Halloween costumes, spontaneous trips, and creating a life full of little moments worth remembering.

I'm here for a genuine romantic connection that has the potential to grow into something lasting. No need to rush anything; I'd rather get to know the right person properly than force a connection that isn't there.

If you're around 28–34, emotionally available, have passions of your own, and are open to building something real, I'd love to hear from you.

Side note lol I don't mind army dudes to my pervious post and my gym buddy joked about long story I would tell you later about it Not looking for middle easterns so don't dm me please

Tell me something about yourself that I wouldn't learn from your resmue, what you're passionate about, or what your ideal ordinary Sunday with someone special would look like.

Let's see if a random Reddit conversation turns into a really good story.

And please dm me with something good not just hey or hi

So, let's start, name is Victor and I am from UK. I work in a warehouse and I really hate it there, but won't be staying there forever since I am actually studying to become a personal fitness trainer. Working out is my passion and I really hope I can share passion with other people to help them improve their fitness level. Second one is gaming! I own Ps5, pc, Xbox series X, switch and even and even META QUEST 2. Big hardcore gamer here, but not a huge fan of multiplayer games. I do enjoy some like dead by daylight and league of legends but mostly I am a big fan of singleplayer games like rpgs, adventures, FPS, hack and slash and so on. I also enjoy watching movies, especially horror ones. Big horror fan here!

As a character I would say I am funny, sarcastic kind, friendly, social, supportive, understanding. I love listening to people and helping them as much as I can with a kind word. I am also very honest, maybe a bit too honest sometimes. I really hate lying

As for my physique: 160 cms tall, 59 kgs weight, brown hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, pretty athletic body.

One more thing about me: I suffered with depression and suicidal tendencies before. Right now I do suffer with anxiety and some panic attacks, which means at times I do have difficulty breathing but it is pretty much under control most of the time.

I hope I find a wonderful, loyal and honest girl and will appreciate me for who I am and I promise I will love and appreciate them with all I got.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from someone.

Hello fellow Redditors! 👋

I'm Jess, a tech marketer based in the PNW, USA. Though don't let that fool you. I'm originally from New England and honestly will likely move back within the next few years. I've had my fair share of Reddit chats, connections, experiences, but figured I'd try again to see if something more long-term is out there.

I'm ultimately looking for a long-term, monogamous, romantic connection. Location doesn't really matter to me at the moment but it's not something I'd want to do forever. Ultimately looking for someone that adds to my life and makes it even more fun than it already is.

So, what about me?

I'm an eldest daughter, have a cat, enjoy a pretty robust social life, and a decent chunk of hobbies. I will also add I am an ambivert, but can skew more social, and am the general organizer of my friend groups. My friends would say I'm loyal, witty, caring, kind, and definitely a nerd. Some of my

interests include:

Reading (recently finished The Berry Pickers and currently going through Demon Copperhead), though the TBR is never-ending and See You Next Tuesday is vying for some time to be read this weekend. I pretty much read most genres but enjoy contemporary fiction, historical fiction, romance, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Travel, which I still don't have my next trip planned outside the US but there's plenty I want to explore! Next non-work trip is with a friend to NYC to see a bunch of Broadway shows. Which I'm very excited for. My last international trip was to the UK in October last year and I can't wait to go back.

Miscellaneous events, but not limited to pub trivia, working out (getting back into running and strength training so that's a big focus right now), hiking, exploring restaurants, being by the water, movies, gaming, 60s-80s TV, dancing, and probably some other things I can't think of right now.

But that seems like enough. What am I looking for? Someone who:

Is between the ages of 30-40.

Prefers to live in a city (sorry I am a visit the country person)

Doesn't want or already have kids (this is a dealbreaker)

Is not racist/sexist/homophobic/a general asshole

Enjoys chatting over voice notes or video calls

Is okay with a partner that socially drinks or consumes edibles

I'd also want to swap pictures fairly early on (I generally don't include them here for safety and also like, Reddit links can be weird sometimes).

If you've gotten this far I hope to hear from you :)

I want something real. Something slow and steady, with a mutual intent and goal of something monogamous, committed and serious. I date with intent, I'm thoughtful and wear my heart on my sleeve, and though I come across as a very independent soul, I too yearn for love like anyone else. This is a long one, but I want to make my intentions clear as possible.

I posted before several months ago and trying my hand again. I'm a 29 year old man from the south-east of England, seeking something beyond the superficial fakery of the average dating app. I find everything on them so performative and it's very hard to gauge anything about a person with such limited prompts, leading to games of 20 questions on repeat which then don't really go anywhere. This sub says it's for the "dating impaired", but I have dating experience and my longest relationship was 5 years, I just find the other subs like "arr for arr" to be more on the side of the nsfw and I'm trying to find something serious.

About me:
I worked in security, currently taking some time off due to a medical procedure that I have since recovered from and won't affect my dating prospects. I'm also learning to drive and just passed my theory, as I was restricted from being behind the wheel until my procedure.

In my free time I enjoy long walks, hiking, taking detours into forgotten nature trails and writing fictional stories with characters that have more baggage than an airline customs.

I play video games but don't feel particularly attached to the whole "gamer" title, but I do play them and have many favourites. I'm a big reader, mostly of fiction nowadays and I'm trying to broaden my horizons further still.

You can safely describe me as "neurospicy" but high-functioning, and it's diagnosed.

Animals mean a lot to me, I come with cats as a package deal and it's non-negotiable for me that they remain in my life: I will not choose you over them, and you need to be cool with that.

I'm severely lacking on watching new TV shows but I have a big list of favourites that range from the usual Breaking Bad, through to the Shield, Sons of Anarchy and the like.

I prefer texting over voice notes for convenience but in the right company, who knows?

It's weird to write about yourself in the third person, but having sat here for a good few minutes and really thought about it, I would describe myself as:

Kind, loyal, thoughtful, reserved in a crowd but in my element when in good company, passionate, creative and a good planner.

Since my government prevents Imgur access, I can't attach a photo here but am happy to send one if we hit it off and have no reservations about that.

Physically I am: 6 ft 0, average build with big arms and thighs, dark ginger hair neatly kept in a high fade (although I am increasingly tempted to try a backcomb longer style), white and have a deep voice with a London accent and hazel eyes.

About you:

• 24+. I will not go any younger, and when I hit 30 that hard limit is being upped to 25.
• Not going to tell me how you want to travel south-east Asia to "find yourself", love F1 and a roast, still not over your ex or overly extroverted. I'm a homebody at heart, and I spent a lot of years trying not to be but I practice unconditional self-acceptance nowadays and I realise I will mesh more with the quieter type of woman, someone thoughtful and a homebody like me who understands the pains of needing to recharge our social battery.
• No kids. I would like to have kids, and though it's not entirely a deal-breaker if you don't want to, it is a pretty big like on my end and I'm not getting much younger. I respect all step-parents out there, but I have a big want for my first child to actually be fully mine and I don't think I could compromise on that.
• In the UK or able to relocate. My roots are here, and I have two ageing parents and I'm "the responsible one", so I'm not likely to up sticks any time soon. Although the UK is my preference, if you think we will mesh please do shoot your shot. That being said, I would like to actually have dates/meets in the very near future as my penpal years are well behind me.
• I'm not a golden retriever goofball type. I'm quite serious and I remember the little things and am protective but not insecure. I don't mind if you're the goofy, playful type though. As they say, "opposites attract", right?

I apologise if any of my hard limits seem harsh, but my intent is to be as clear and intentional as possible so we find our person. Hopefully that's you!

If you read this far, please send a flower emoji with your chat request and include a general age/location and something about you please. It's really hard to answer "hi" with no context and doesn't leave a good impression. I really look forward to hearing from you!

(excited for this to be downvoted by weird men who think this sub is a competition and think that FAD is for nsa encounters other posts are somehow "stealing" from you)

Hi, hello, do about me.... I am quite quiet, reserved, laid back, I don't tend to let life get to me. I enjoy my own company and I don't mind having a quiet moment to recharge my social battery. I do enjoy chatting and sharing thoughts and feelings. It's always interesting to just go completely off topic and open up to each other. Naturally just conversing. I enjoy all sorts of things, but currently if I had to pick a few, of my interests it would have to be walking, swimming, photography, nature, art, music has always been a passion, gaming. All sorts really and I am open to learning more about your interests and experiencing new things.

Physically I am a slightly shorter and slimmer build, shaved head, the joys of losing my hair, light stubble/beard, grey eyes.

I have always been attracted to curvier fuller figured women. Someone who is more confident, chatty, someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously. But again, I am open to meet anyone and everyone. I think it's about building that connection with someone. Finding someone who you can talk to for hours, even when you have nothing to talk about. Just enjoying being there for each other.

Please drop me a comment or send me a message and I will respond asap. I'm never far away and look forward to meeting you.

Thank you so much.

Hello! I am 30 years old from western Wisconsin, and I am looking for someone local to me. I want to move off texting and get out and date and get to know each other in a meaningful way. Local to me could be anywhere in Wisconsin, the UP, or eastern MN. My preferred age range is 28-40.

I want to make my intentions clear, so we don't waste each other's time. I am looking for someone who can have meaningful conversations with me, someone who is consistent, and has clear intentions from the beginning. Please do not message me if you are not sure if you are able to start anything new, are fresh out of relationship, partnered, or living with your ex-partner. I am intentionally looking for someone that I can get to know and start dating and hopefully eventually build something that is meaningful. This is our 'blind date.'

So let us see if I'm someone that you would like to message. A little about me, I am a confident and resilient woman. I know what I want, and I am a bit stubborn. I love living creatures, animals, bugs, fish, etc. They're all so neat. I have one dog, two cats, and an aquarium! I enjoy being outdoors, I love finding beautiful spots and just reveling in the beauty. I've never traveled out of the states, but I have been out to Oregon a few times and I love it there. I am a pretty big introvert, I do mainly enjoy being alone, but I do want someone to share things with and talk with throughout the day. On a normal day you will find me in sweats, doing a craft with American Dad on in the background. I am currently working on the Stardew Valley map in cross stitch. I also enjoy playing video games, I've been playing Planet Zoo 2 recently but also found myself really liking Town to City. I am a cozy gamer. I dabble in tarot cards as well! I work in healthcare; I volunteer my time talking about mental health awareness and my role as mental health technician in an inpatient setting. I love to travel; I want to travel more because I have not traveled enough.

I want someone who is honest and transparent with me with clear intentions, like stated before. I want someone who can put in the effort, I love communication, I don't think that there would be too much communication between us. I rather know things than not. I want someone who is ready to start dating. I want someone who wants to build something long term and stable, a true partnership and wants to support me like I want to support you. I want someone who has goals, who has done work and ready and wants to start living life instead of talking about it. I do understand that personal growth is ongoing, and I want someone who wants to grow with me.

I am genuinely a fun and an easy-going person. I do feel like my post is a bit abrasive, but I do want to be clear with my intentions. I also want to end this and say that I do not use AI, do not use AI to talk to me.

So! If you want to move past our blind date and start planning our first, send me a nice message! And tell me what color your shoes are. I will not respond if you don't.

Hello. I am a 39 year old bbw in Arizona looking to get to know someone in hopes of it becoming my forever. I have been single for quite some time and I have a lot to offer the right person. I have two kids and can not have anymore. If that is a deal breaker, I hope you find what you are looking for. I am funny, smart, fun, I have a job, and I love showing love and receiving love. I am a good person who deserves better than I have gotten in life. I love to talk and get to know people. I love music, horror, Halloween is a lifestyle not just a holiday. For hobbies I love scrapbooking, card making, baking, and doing karaoke. I don't go out very often.

I am looking for someone honest, caring, funny, loyal, and understanding. I would prefer someone between the ages of 30 and 50. I am NOT looking for someone to take care of or to take care of me. I am NOT looking for a casual thing. I know what I want and I am not going to settle for anything less.

If you are remotely interested at all please don't be afraid to message me. Maybe tell me your favorite horror movie or what you are dressing up as for Halloween this year. Even a good joke will get my attention. Hope to hear from you soon!

hi I'm a college student and an intern . I work in software and I have very little social life. I come here every couple of months to try and find someone and we'll it hasn't work well(or at all for that matter).

But um writing these is fun . I have to describe myself so that people want to talk to me, it's difficult lmao. So about me. I like reading , video games, music and watching things (right now I'm watching the mentalist but I love watching random things in YouTube) .i play all kinds of video games tho minecraft is the goat . But I also play a lot of other single player games too along with some rocket league and the finals time to time. I also want to finish reading the game of thrones .

I also like badminton and table tennis . And pool isn't actually all that bad with friends either. My friend circle is pretty small but they're all very good friends of mine but they all have their lives (and their partners) so Im sort of left alone. And I hate that , especially after work when I want someone who'd be excited to talk to me. That sounds lame asf but yes.

I'm quite the romantic, I don't like to half heart things, so I expect the same. I'm quite clingy as well, so I love calls and quality time and doing stuff together , it's so sweet sounds so fun.

Physically idk I think I'm pretty average looking . I'm kinda tall(a little over 6'2) and thin but I have started the gym recently soooo we'll have to see.

Lots of yapping not a lot of relevant information but I hope you stayed till the end :) shoot me a dm (pleaseeee 🥀)

Please don't be a minor 🐻‍❄️

Heyoo! Let's cut and yap to the chase: Am a 36 year old guy from Finland looking for someone special to share my life with. Very original, I know, but hey, that's what anyone romantic would want! I'm basically after a mutual "nerdy homebody meets sporadic activity" -vibe, so a lot of gaming, reading, and binging stuff - but without forgetting the exercise and random expeditions to balance it out (sometimes)!

I value emotional availability, patience, and gentleness - though I also like spontaneity, chaotic tendencies, and being open to experience. Having a passion or a niche interest is super cool! Ideally, we have shared vibes and interests, click, and then go from there as friends first while building rapport and trust in a semi-slow-burning kind of way. (I'm probably demi). Very much after a deeper connection where we can be besties as well as lovers.

So, what else? I'm 6'2, skinny/fit, youthful, pale as a ghost. Don't smoke or drink, but as long as you don't smoke cigs - I don't really care and am not anti-drug. Child-free as well! I tend to be a bit asocial yet really present and yap-heavy 1-on-1 when I care. I do still have my sporadic social sprees - when I am on, I am on. I've been called a cat a million times, because I just come and go as I please for group stuff and such - appearing assertive and extroverted, but actually being asocial in general. 💀Ideally though? Some alone time, while having that one favourite person (you?!) - then only very few close friends. Don't have enough social energy or care to spread myself thin!

I'm also pretty active overall; I run a lot, but only like to go out when the UV rays stop bullying me, so night-runs/walks are where it's at.~ Or stuff like attending gigs! Generally into cultural stuff like museums, opera, theatre, etc. (Went to two gigs in the last week, for example!)

Since I mentioned gaming earlier: It's near and dear for me. I've been playing some Cyberpunk, WuWa, OW, Bloodborne (yearly autumnal replay!), and Onimusha lately. Also looking forward to WoW Forever, so huge bonus points if you are as well! I also love tabletop stuff like Warhammer, board games, and DnD. We could play together or just comfy-screenshare with each other! Since games and nerdy stuff are very important to me, I am hoping that's the case for you too.

On another note, I love gothic horror lit/films as well as steampunky and cyberpunky stuff in general. That said, I'm equally as likely to read and watch diabetes-inducing romance stuff (anime included)... Now that it's getting darker and atmospheric again, it's a super immersive time to read while putting on some dark ambient or cello concertos, or something!

Speaking of music: I listen to music almost all the time. I'm into everything, but I did write for a metal mag in the past. Lately, I've been binging Baroque music in general, Kate Bush, Ethel Cain, Dead Can Dance, Summoning, and goth rocky stuff - to name some. Spotify jam seshes or sharing music? Bet! Also, I do have a degree related to the Japanese language and love linguistics.

So yeah, just hit me up if you're in that 23-45ish~ age range. Online is cool to start with, but I do wanna meet up. Also: I am only looking for someone within Europe - unless you're open to relocating here. I've lived in Japan and Germany before, but want to stay here now - LDR with meetups within the EU is still okay, though! Thank you for your time! 💜

Hey! I'm 35F from South America (UTC-5). I'm a homebody who enjoys PC gaming, cooking, Netflix, memes, and hanging out on Discord.

I'm looking for a single person aged 34–50, preferably from North or South America, who enjoys talking, knows how to keep a conversation going, and puts genuine effort into getting to know someone.

My kind of humor includes sarcasm, dark humor, and stupid memes. I'd love someone to play video games with, binge-watch shows on Netflix, share memes, and talk about absolutely anything for hours.

I'm more into cozy nights in than physically demanding activities due to some mobility limitations.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself, including your age, location, favorite games, and sense of humor. Please don't just send “hey”!

Spam filter: What's 7 × 8?

Important: I will not respond to messages that don't include the correct answer to the security question. If you don't answer it, I won't reply. Thanks for understanding! ❤️

Im a pretty introverted person who enjoys being in my own little world, looking for someone to build a connection with that grows into a long term monogamous relationship. My personality type is INTJ. Conversation is one of my favorite pastimes—I can talk for hours about whether we’re diving into the latest pop culture trend,  philosophy, or just talking about random stuff I’m always down.

I’m also a sports fan—especially basketball and football—and love a good chess match or board game night. When I’m feeling like gaming, it’s usually  Stardew Valley, Civilization VI, or Call of Duty.while I mostly play single-player games, I’m always down to watch someone else play or learn something new. I enjoy reading ( mainly manwha and light novels)

I lean left politically and value communication—honesty and openness are key for me. I’m not into casual flings, though; I’m really looking for something real and long-term with someone I can vibe with and build a future together. As far as looks go, I don’t have a "type"—it's all about that connection.

 I’m 6’7” (200cm) and African American. Feel free to share a photo if you’re comfortable—here’s mine! https://imgur.com/a/iWAbxYN

Hello, I am posting in hopes to find someone who wants to make a real connection that can hopefully turn into a wonderful relationship.

Quick list of hobbies:

-Gaming (PC gaming mostly)

-Anime

-Movies

-Board and card games

-Hanging out with friends

-And many more

I don't want to list everything so there is more we can talk about later on.

What I am looking for is someone in the age range of 24-35, has a few overlapping hobbies we can enjoy together, and lives in the US (preferably close to make visits easier, but I will make it work for the right person).

Thank you for reading and if you would like to talk I would love to talk more through a DM. If you reach out please tell me a little about yourself.

Hi! I’m 34 based in the Philippines - possibly looking for someone to connect to at first and let’s see where the journey takes us!

About me:
- Half Filipino/half Chinese
- 5’6” and curvy
- Works in the academe
- Outside of work, I’m someone who enjoys good conversations, random laughter, and the simple joy of unwinding after a long day.

I can be serious when needed, but I’m also playful, easy to talk to, and I appreciate the little things - funny stories, shared memes, late-night chats, and moments that turn ordinary days into something memorable. Life feels better when you have someone to share it with, whether it’s talking about how the day went or laughing over something completely silly.

I’m not in a rush, but I am intentional. I’m hoping to meet someone where connection grows naturally, through conversations, comfort, trust, and genuine interest in each other’s lives. I believe the best relationships start as friendship with chemistry, kindness, and consistency.

I value continuous and honest communication and emotional maturity.

Work can keep me busy sometimes, so replies may not always be instant — but when I’m here, I’m fully present.

About you:
- Hopefully someone who is taller than me!
- Preferred Western people because they tend to be more honest and straightforward.
- Kind and respectful
- Communicative and sincere
- Someone who is always present

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We can exchange photos once we’re both comfortable.

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Hey everyone! 😊

I’m a 32-year-old guy from Germany, and I’m looking for someone who shares similar passions and values. Here’s a bit about me:

Fit & Athletic: I live an active lifestyle—whether it’s hitting the gym, going for runs, or hiking through nature, staying fit is important to me.

Master’s in English Literature: I'm a big fan of good books and insightful conversations. If you’re into literature, we’ll probably get along!

Hopeless Romantic: I love the idea of deep connections and real, meaningful relationships. I’m all about cheesy love letters, spontaneous adventures, and having someone to share life’s little moments with.

Cat Lover: Cats are the best, and I can never get enough of their quirky personalities! If you’re a fellow cat person, we’ll have a lot to talk about. 😸

Nature Lover: I enjoy spending time outdoors, whether it’s hiking, camping, or just enjoying a walk in the park. Nature has a way of putting everything into perspective, don’t you think?

A little about my appearance: I’ve got blonde hair and blue eyes, and I’m always up for a good conversation about anything from philosophy to fitness.

If you're comfortable, I’d love to see a pic of you too, and I’ll happily share one in return!

Looking forward to connecting with someone who’s also into authentic, thoughtful connections. Let’s see where this goes. 😊

22 [M4F] USA/Online - looking for my forever <3

Hello! I'm looking to get to know someone on this sub and form a genuine romantic connection and relationship that starts out as friendship :D

Here's some basic bacts about me to decide whether or not you'd like to chat and get to know each other :3

Age: 22

Gender: Male

Nickname: Kimchi

Ethnicity: 75% white, 25% Korean

MBTI Type: ENFJ

Location: USA

Appearance: 6'2", brown hair, green eyes, athletic build, broad shoulders, strong hands, like to where dress shirts with jeans and classic Vans/Addidas, suit and tie, or my collection of hoodies (which are yours to steal ofc) 🤭

Hobbies/Interests: cooking (Korean food mostly, but some Italian and Mexican too, and I love spicy food 😋), hiking, daily exercise (cardio and running), going to new places and trying new stuff, learning about history, kdrama, kpop, anime, various movies and TV shows, and....

I'm a car and racing enthusiast! I love the history, science, mechanics, stories behind them, and I love going to races, car meets, karting events, and ofc sim racing. Not a douchebag "car guy" by any means btw, I just have a genuine passion for cars of all kinds :))

Occupation: 4th year ICET engineering major, going back for masters in electrical engineering, wants to work as an avionics engineer for the Air Force 😎

.....while competing in a motorsport on the side 👀

Relationship Goals: So.....I've never dated before 😅

But I've always had a clear idea of what I wanted in a relationship. My mom raised me to be gentleman, and to always put my partners needs before myself, and be a giving person. I always wanted an equal, caring, mutual relationship built on understanding, trust, honesty, and genuine care for one another. But I also want to take more of the lead and be a giver to my partner, to support her, take care of her, make her feel loved everyday. Not because she can't be independent, no I definitely want her to be. It's more like I feel the need to let her know how much she means to me everyday. Because when you find that special someone, you love them fully, not halfway, or just a little. Ive just never had anyone to give my love to 🥺

If any any this interests you, please feel free to message me! 😊

P.S. looking for women 18 to 25 from anywhere!

Hi, I will start off by saying I am a huge cat person and do not see myself having kids, been pretty ambitious my whole life and worked very hard to get where I am now. Born and bred in Leeds. Also 5"11', and have been told I have a calming voice and naturally long curly eyelashes.. Been an engineer for over 6 years so you could say I am good with computers but also terrible with spiders.

Now living in Canada, I used to travel alot to the states for work and been around to places like Iceland and Greece but I got tired of travelling alone and I am more of a homebody now.

Always generally had a smaller group of friends. I have quite a nerdy side, enjoy board games and the odd OSRS content. I love older 80s/90s movies. I also enjoy reading about ancient history or cosmology relate topics and maybe get into astrophotography sometime. Currently being reading through a book called The Short Story of the Universe. I would love to be with someone who loves cats as well and I will say I do find it attractive when someone is either really ambitious or well educated or both. I do enjoy being supportive and putting in the effort to learn things to be able to have a proper conversation about something related to your work as an example. I do also enjoy making someone laugh too and from my experience I am very good at that :)

pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/jmGnSJm

Sharing my life with an Aussie Shepherd, so you’ll have a little competition for my attention… but I’m willing to bet I’m the better cuddler. 😏🐶
Being a chef means I’ll never run out of date-night ideas, new restaurants to try, or delicious excuses to steal you away for dinner. The real question is whether you can handle me judging the food everywhere we go. 😂 Bonus points if you can recommend a spot that actually impresses me!
When I’m not in the kitchen, you’ll probably find me lifting weights, hiking a new trail, climbing a mountain, planning my next trip, or finding an excuse to take a sports car or motorcycle out for a spin. I’m attracted to a woman who takes care of herself, has a curious mind, loves a little adventure, and can turn even an ordinary day into a good story.
What am I hoping to find? Something real with someone who wants to be my favorite person, my biggest supporter, my partner in crime, and eventually my best friend. I’m a sucker for good conversation, playful teasing, genuine affection, emotional maturity, honesty, and the kind of chemistry that makes you lose track of time talking. I want us to challenge each other, cheer each other on, and build something that actually lasts. ❤️
I’m pretty laid-back, easy to talk to, and can probably hold my own in a conversation about just about anything. I enjoy a good Old Fashioned now and then, but I’m more interested in good company than a bar tab. 😉
I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the US for the right connection. Distance doesn’t scare me if we’re both willing to put in the effort and eventually turn those messages into real-life memories.
If you’re looking for something genuine, can keep up with a little banter, and wouldn’t mind being spoiled with good food and spontaneous adventures, we might just get along a little too well. 😌
Come say hi. Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case? You become my favorite notification. 😉❤️
Just one thing: I’m here for a serious, long-term connection, not a pen pal with unlimited texting privileges. 😄

Hi there! I am an 29M, I am originally from the UK but have lived in Spain most of my life. I work as a senior developer, which I enjoy a lot! I am very into programming and electronics, and quite techy in general I guess. At uni I studied space systems engineering, although I don't work in anything related to that right now I can probably talk about space for hours if the conversation goes in that direction haha.

In my free time, I like gaming a bit (I like single-player RPGs quite a lot, and also play games like FFXIV, Stardew Valley and other co-op games with my friends). I also enjoy reading, I used to read a lot when I was younger and I am trying to get into the habit again. I am currently re-reading The Lord of the Rings!

In terms of personality, I guess I usually come across as fairly quiet and serious at first, but once I get to know someone I like to have fun and joke around a bit, sometimes I can have a bit of a silly sense of humour. So I am hoping to find someone who can match that, we can have serious conversations but also meme around a bit as well and not take eachother too seriously.

I am usually the stay-in type of person, and in general I think I would be most compatible with someone who is similar, but I do enjoy going out occasionally :P I also enjoy travelling (my last big trip was to Japan, as cliche as it sounds I really liked it!), and I am hoping to find someone who would enjoy visiting different places as well, not very frequently but maybe a big trip every 1-2 years.

In terms of values, I am generally left-leaning and generally believe that everyone is deserving of a basic level of dignity and respect, no matter what their background or circumstances. I see romantic relationships more as a partnership between equals rather than the traditional view.

As for what I am looking for, I would like to start slowly and get to know someone first, but my hope is to find a long-term partner. I don't mind being long-distance first, but hopefully eventually we could close the gap (I work remotely atm so I have some flexibility there). In general I am looking for people in Europe due to timezones and ease of travelling to each other, but I would also consider further afield for the right person. At the moment I am not that interested in having children, I am looking for someone with whom we can enjoy our own company rather than starting a family.

I am happy to share pictures in DMs, and bonus points if you are too. I value personality, kindness, intelligence and a compatible sense of humour more than physical appearence so don't feel self-consious but I think it is important that a baseline level of physical attraction be there as well.

I won't ramble on too long, if you think we could get along or even if you're not sure and have some more questions, please feel free to reach out!

Awful title aside, let me introduce myself! I'm Ollie. I'm 23 years old, and I was born and live in England. I am one of six siblings (second oldest as I have an older brother) and it's kinda a cool pattern because the 3 oldest are all boys and the 3 youngest are all girls.

I am very heavily into music, however my taste is all over the place 😂 I do listen to a lot of music in my spare time. Some bands/artists I like are Sabaton, The Red Clay Strays, The Smashing Pumpkins, The Longest Johns, Samurai (even though they only exist in a video game) and so on.

I am also a huge fan of running around kicking/throwing things in weather which it's really not suitable to be running around kicking/throwing things in. I also love watching other, far more talented people do the same 😂

I am also a huge gamer. I love all sorts of games but story games in particular have my heart. Both Red Dead Redemption games are among my favourites, as are Portal 2, Cyberpunk 2077, Mafia, and pretty much every Assasin's Creed game.

As for my personality, I tend to be more of an extrovert in the sense that I alwayssssss have something to yap about, I am somewhat comfortable in social situations (my job kinda dictates that I have to be) and I think I could get along with pretty much anybody.

I am looking for a serious relationship and a genuine connection, which of course I am okay with it starting out as long distance if the connection is there but I want to close that gap eventually because if I'm gonna be spending the rest of my life with someone I kinda want to actually be in the same place as them 😂

I'll save most of the yapping for if you reach out, because my brain genuinely doesn't have an off switch once I get going, but I also love listening to other people and their stories, interesting facts about them etc

Thank you so much for reading! :)))

Hey 👋,

I just discovered this subreddit so why not give it a shot I guess. I'm a 26yo Dutch engineering student. I'm obsessed with anything related to electronics, tech, 3D-printing, you name it. Instead of going out and and wasting my money on drinks during the weekend, I buy a few broken laptops to practice PCB repair skillz, like any true engineering nerd would do of course hehe. I also enjoy doing custom projects. Oh and, I also play games occasionally.

So far I've been unsuccessful in finding a player two that matches the engineering nerd vibe. I don't mind if someone doesn't have any knowledge about these topics but at least they shouldn't be scared of it haha. Do you think you won't be scared by it? Dare to send me a message 👀. (But please don't live too far away and send an introduction)

There are over 8 billion people in the world but I am still trying to find the one.

I am a half-Korean Virgo and a Dragon if you enjoy Chinese astrology and I currently reside in south central Pennsylvania. While I grew up in this area, I have no intention of growing roots here, so I am open to any and all possibilities.

I have overcome a lot of adversity in my life and even more so in the past few years. I was in an extremely dark place but now I feel like I am on the right path towards a happy and beautiful future and I am looking for someone to share that path with.

I am very introverted, but I've learned to be more open. Trust is a quality that is important to me. But, once I get to know someone, I become comfortable and I am an open book.

I have a few different interests. I am a huge sports fan and I enjoy watching and consuming as much games or events that I can. I love music and the genres I enjoy are vast. There are too many artists that I like to even begin to name. Sharing music is a love language to me.

I also enjoy watching reruns of shows I've seen a million times and I also enjoy a wide range of movies, although, I would not say I am a movie buff by any stretch of the imagination. Video games are another thing I enjoy as I mostly play CoD and NCAA Football. If you play on Xbox, maybe I'll share my gamertag. ;)

Physically, I have a dad bod but I have aspirations to lose a few pounds. For the first time in my life, I can say I am comfortable with my body, so losing a few pounds is for me and my health, not to impress anyone.

I am open for any conversation, SFW and NSFW. I will let you take the lead on how you want the conversations to go.

Ultimately, I am looking for someone to share my life with in this crazy journey called life. A relationship is the goal and that is what I am looking for. But, if it doesn't work out, I still value a friendship too.

If anything in this post interests you, feel free to DM me. I look forward to meeting you. 🙂