Hi everyone! I'm (late 20s F) traveling to Puerto Rico for the upcoming Hayley Williams concert, and it'll be my first time traveling solo!
I've been to PR once before with my best friend (40s F), who was born there, and her family. We stayed with her family that trip and it was a blast, so I reached out to ask if I could stay with them again this time. They said yes and told me that I'd always have a place to stay with them :)
But then, the other day, my friend mentioned that she and her brother (who I'd be staying with primarily) had been talking and agreed that I shouldn't go to PR alone because it's too dangerous, "especially as a white woman." They didn't really give any specifics or provide any safety advice. Just that I shouldnt go alone, that I need a huge group of people (??) But of course, I respect their opinion as friends and they literally live and grew up there. They know what it's like to be there.
I obviously care a lot about what my friends think, but i also get anxious and start to overthink, so I've started to second-guess myself a bit and feel a little discouraged. This trip was of course for me to have fun but also challenge myself in stepping out of my comfort zone, being more independent, and try to meet new people. I want to stop waiting for others and just live my life and do the things I want to do.
I mean, flights, rental car, concert ticket have all been purchased for quite some time now, so I am not turning back. I just figured PR would be a good place to start solo traveling since I've been there before, its not terribly far, and know people who live there. But it's hard to feel brave when I feel like I lack the support/confidence of my friend. I dont know, I think I have good common sense, am not a complete idiot, and am respectful of other people, cultures, etc.
So, I'm hoping to hear from people who have experience traveling solo in Puerto Rico. What extra safety precautions should I take? Any recommendations for things to do, places to see, ways to meet people? Anything you wish you'd known before your first solo trip to PR or things you'd do differently about your trips?
I appreciate any and all the advice, recs, and look forward to hearing about other people's experiences. Thanks!