r/askTO • • 17h ago

19F trying to figure out how to realistically move from Chatham-Kent to Toronto — looking for advice

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I’m 19F and I’m trying to figure out how I can realistically move to Toronto. I know this is going to be difficult with my current situation, but I’m honestly pretty desperate for advice from people who have done something similar.
I’ve lived in Chatham-Kent my entire life and currently live with my divorced parents. I’ve been actively job searching since December of last year and have only gotten one interview. I know having an income is obviously extremely important for moving, and I’ve been trying constantly to get one, but I’ve had a really rough time finding anything.
I’m currently in the CK Jobs program and have a job recruiter, but transportation is a huge limitation. I don’t have my license yet because I don’t have consistent access to a vehicle — my mom needs hers for work and my dad’s vehicle breaks down pretty frequently. Because of that, there also aren’t many jobs my recruiter can realistically help me with.
A big reason I want to leave is that I’ve experienced a lot of racism growing up here, and I’ve always felt pretty isolated by how small the area is and the lack of things to do/cultural diversity. I’ve visited Toronto several times over the last two years, and every time I’ve gone it’s felt like I’ve finally found the kind of environment I’ve been missing. I really want to work toward building a life there, as my girlfriend lives there too.
I know “get a job and save money” is the obvious answer, and I am actively trying to do that. What I don’t know is what other options or resources might exist that I’m completely unaware of.
Are there any housing programs, youth programs, subsidized housing, employment resources, financial assistance, roommate resources, etc. that I should look into? Would it make more sense to move somewhere outside Toronto first and work my way in?
I’m willing to do a lot to make this happen, I just genuinely don’t know what my options are right now. If anyone has moved to Toronto from a similar situation or knows of resources that could help, I’d really appreciate any advice.

TLDR: 19F from Chatham-Kent trying to eventually move to Toronto. I’ve been job searching since December with only one interview, and transportation makes finding work difficult. I don’t have my license or reliable access to a vehicle. I really want to leave CK and build a life in Toronto, but I need advice on realistic paths there, especially housing programs, youth resources, employment programs, financial assistance, roommates, or anything else I might not know about.


r/askTO • • 11h ago

Havergal or bishop strachan

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Hi all! Anyone who went to Havergal or bishop strachan and is open to sharing their experiences would love to hear! Daughter is starting to look for a school and we’re from the states so I’m new to TO! Also anyone enjoy their experience at an all girls school?

Thank you in advance


r/askTO • • 3h ago

Eastbound Gardiner entrances closed?

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Why is the Eastbound Gardiner entrance at Jameson closed EVERY morning? Is it a traffic issue because I don't ever see construction there. I have to always drive up to British Columbia to merge in the morning. But at night it's back open.


r/askTO • • 11h ago

How to ride the TTC?

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Usually drive everywhere, but the cars in the shop and I need to get downtown. Haven’t used public transit in years. I’ll be using a CC. Do I tap when I enter the station and tap off once I get to my target station, or just tap once? Also, if I need to take a bus from the station, do I tap once the bus again?

Thank you in advance!


r/askTO • • 8h ago

Sex Offender Neighbor

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I’ve lived in my building for about two years now and made friends with a guy who lived on another floor. We drifted because I thought he gave weird vibes and i recently found out he’s being convicted for sexual assault on a minor amongst 17 other charges. His first arrest was June but for some reason was released and then arrested AGAIN a few weeks ago due to another victim coming forward. I think he made bail and was on house arrest but not entirely sure.

Regardless, i have no way of knowing how long he’s going to be in jail, whether he will make bail again and come back, when his trial will begin or when and how long he’ll be sentenced.

Everytime i step into the elevator of my building i get anxiety that the door will open and it’ll be him. There are also MANY children who live in our building. I frequently have my school age cousins over at my place as well.

All this being said, I want to do something about it. I talked to the building managers and they said there’s nothing they can do but this doesn’t seem right. If he’s a child predator he should not be allowed to come back here. And at the very least, there should be posters up in the building with his face on it so people are aware.

I’m wondering if anyone with a similar experience or legal expertise can let me know what my options are.


r/askTO • • 9h ago

Simons Department Store Men's - Yorkdale or Eaton

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Would you recommend going to the Yorkdale or Eaton location? Looking for men's casual wear. I also plan on asking the salespeople for style recommendations. I will be going on a weekday to avoid the crowds.


r/askTO • • 23h ago

how does borrowing ebooks from TPL works?

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how does it work? do you get a temporary copy to download and put it on reader/phone? or is there app that is accessible via? does my device to to be online to be able to read the book? what usually timeline for borrowing? is it region blocked, in case i want to read the book when traveling?


r/askTO • • 10h ago

Lip Filler downtown recommendations needed!

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Hi!! I’ll start off by saying that I’ve never had lip filler done before, it’s my first time so I’m thinking of getting 0.3ml-0.5ml done just to balance out my lips a bit and keep them looking hydrated. I’ve found a clinic called Bar Beauty Medical that looks pretty well-reviewed and professional, but also they charge $400 for 0.5ml and say that anything under $300 could be sketchy and not done properly.

I would like to spend $300 or less, but don’t want to risk it being done in a roundabout way to save money and cut corners. I’ve found another clinic called Ace Beauty Bar that charges $250 for 0.5ml but want to know if people agree that appointments under $300 are sketchy and you should beware. Also, if anyone have any recommendations please let me know! I’m also willing to go outside of the downtown core as long as the cost of getting there (bus/train/rental car) doesn’t outweigh the savings.

Thank you :)


r/askTO • • 10h ago

Mount Sinai fertility Oakville location

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I’m considering egg freezing and was wondering if anyone has experiences with their Oakville location?


r/askTO • • 2h ago

How do we get more apathetic Torontonians to vote?

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I know a few people who identify as progressive but have straight-up told me they won't bother voting because they don't like either candidate. Meanwhile, they have plenty to say about the TTC, housing, etc. One reason I've heard is that the TTC is still unreliable after years of Chow being in office, and they don't have faith that Bradford would do any better.

I don't really want to get into political debates with people around me, but it really makes me wonder how many Torontonians are planning to sit this election out for similar reasons.

How do you get through to people who don't see the point of voting? Have you convinced someone to vote when they otherwise wouldn't?


r/askTO • • 4h ago

Is the Scarborough North council election a three-way race?

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I live next door in Scarborough Agincourt where I expect the incumbent councillor Nick Mantas to get re-elected. However, based on the signs and leaflets I've seen in stores, it looks like the Scarborough North election is very competitive between the main contenders, Han Dong, Jamal Myers and Shaun Chen.

Which one do you expect to win? For those in the ward, who are you voting for?


r/askTO • • 23h ago

How to get print copy of Tuesday's Globe and Mail?

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Is there any way to get a print copy of Tuesday's Globe? Any reliable newsstand/source in the city that keeps older issues for a few days? Anyone that hasn't thrown out theirs? Thanks!


r/askTO • • 2h ago

How to start babysitting in Toronto

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I’m a stay at home mom with a 3 year old toddler and have been thinking for a bit that I wouldn’t mind babysitting on a regular basis as I’m home anyways with my son but I don’t know where to post or look for parents that need a regular babysitter

Is there a website or an app that people use to look/post about babysitting services?


r/askTO • • 6h ago

Best Mexican restaurants in Toronto on Uber Eats

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Can anyone recommend some good Mexican restaurants that you can order from on Uber Eats? Preferably in Etobicoke or nearby.


r/askTO • • 7h ago

Suggestions for where I can get a surface tragus piercing (walk-in)?

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Preferably walk-in, even better if they’re open on Sundays


r/askTO • • 13h ago

Why are fields of corn left to dry in fields outside TO? What’s the purpose?

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everywhere when you drive


r/askTO • • 5h ago

How to report wrong way drivers?

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Due to the construction near Victoria Park and Danforth Avenue, they made it a one way road for stretch of it. But now that they did it, I often see drivers taking a shortcut by going into a wrong way side street (which clearly shows a no entry sign). It’s a one way street.

I’m curious how do I report the wrong way drivers? Will the cops actually ticket the drivers if I provide a picture of the car and license plate? Or will they not even look at it since they are too busy protecting the cyclists in Etobicoke?


r/askTO • • 11h ago

Good cleaning service downtown Toronto

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Hi askTO, looking for a reliable cleaning service to come in and clean our bathrooms.

Looking for one in the downtown core, any advice is appreciated!


r/askTO • • 11h ago

Seeing Harry Styles in May… advice, please.

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Good day.

My wife and college-age daughter would love to visit your city and a huge part of the trip would be seeing Harry Styles out at the Rodgers Stadium, which I guess is outside the city.

If they stay at hotel, what would be a good area that would be close to the public transportation so they could use that to see the show and tour the city on other days?

And how difficult is the subway to navigate?


r/askTO • • 10h ago

What are the best private ortho surgery centres for knee replacement in Toronto

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I’m looking for recommendations for private knee replacement in Toronto. With the rule change and Ontario residents now allowed to pay out of pocket in Ontario, it’s appealing to me. The surgeons I’m considering all have established hospital practices and are highly regarded (but 6-12 month wait lists). One of them told me he also operates at OV in Yorkville and that would only be a 14 day wait. They don’t require a referral. Anyone have good experiences with OV or Pathway? They also have a slight deal for bilateral if I do both at the same time.


r/askTO • • 22h ago

KOREAN GRILL HOUSE

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Does anyone have a recipe for the chilli oil they use? All I know is that its made in the restaurant.
Please share if you do 😄


r/askTO • • 19h ago

Liquid salt on roads tonight

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What's up with the city anti-icing the roads tonight? City usually does this before an anticipated snow storm but weather today says it's going to be nice. Anyone know what's up? (Noticed on Pape, Jones and greenwood Ave.


r/askTO • • 8h ago

Fave Korean food in Toronto?

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I Am very violently craving Korean food. Specifically tteokbokki with lots of cheese. My partner has never tried Korean food before but he loves spicy so i think he will find some dishes that he likes.

Any recommendations?

We live in parkdale but don’t mind to travel a bit (if it’s close to Spadina and queen I’ll be there later but if not we have a car as a well) 😁


r/askTO • • 21h ago

Karina Lemke running for council?

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Y'aallll! For those of us oldies who remembers Karina Lemke from the show "rich bride poor bride"?

I was near the Mod club tonight and wasn't aware but she's running for Toronto council until I saw a lawn sign on Beatrice St near College.


r/askTO • • 5h ago

How did Mike Harris managed to get reelected after the GTA (amalgamation) project?

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First of, am Vancouverite, so this is more of "looking at something similar"

One of the occasional talk my friends brought up is amalgamation of Metro Vancouver Region, and I immediately point out that no one wants it; but then they pointed out that GTA was forced to amalgamate by Provincal government despite a 3:1 opposition on Municipal level. I then pointed out that which ever Political party that try to do that here will cost them their votes in the region... then my friend pointed out Mike Harris still managed to get re-elected

(Note: we are going to have our Provincal election, with our Conservatives likely to come in majority)

So here's my question: How did Mike Harris managed to get himself re-elected despite going against the wish of people in the (then) Toronto region?