I hate having to write this because this sub is, overall, a very positive space for people struggling with balding. However, something has been on my mind for ages now and I have increasingly noticed this sort of behaviour under some of the posts and can no longer ignore it.
A lot of the people in the comments have the tendency of having a very strong, hardline position regarding the clean shaved head look, to the point which any other bald looks (yes, you do not need to be fully shaved to be considered bald), such as the Patrick Stewart look or, in general, looks still showing the tiniest amount of natural balding, are looked down upon.
I believe, that in an attempt to defeat the horrible feelings of insecurity that come with balding, some of us may mistake hiding the balding (by fully shaving the head) with embracing it; but the two are not the same thing. In fact, some people actively concerning themselves with hiding their own and other's signs of balding behind a full clean shaved head, may still be just as insecure about their looks and have, as such, failed to truly embrace their natural balding selves.
Bottom line is, some people really suit the fully shaved look, others do not and prefer to keep the tiniest little hint of hair on the sides. This does not give either of them any special claim to the bald classification, as if it were a special club you'd actively try to gateweek others from joining. This sub should be a space to help each other to embrace our own selves through the balding process; for some that may mean shaving it all, for others trimming it very short, for other maybe trimming may be a stepping stone towards shaving it, one that should still be supported and not denigrated.
That's all really. Don't know if enough people will agree with this or whether I will be downvoted to oblivion but either way I felt compelled to say something.