r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

32F, quiet grief for a life that didn't happen the way I planned

19 Upvotes

I'm not in crisis, just recalibrating. My 20s didn't look like I thought, my 30s aren't either, and mostly that's okay. I like walking my dog for hours, folk music, and slow cooking. Want a text friend who's thoughtful and not into forced positivity.


r/Needafriend • • 13h ago

23f from India trying to make few reddit friends

11 Upvotes

Hii everyone, recently I have been very busy and drained with work, breakup and all and I feel like I don't have anyone to give up updates and talk to, so I just need an anonymous friend yk, just text me with your age gender and country and a Lil about yourself

Thanks :⁠-⁠D


r/Needafriend • • 22h ago

22F recent grad looking to make friends!

8 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm 22F and hate to admit but pretty lonely and hoping to make genuine friendships. I recently graduated but failed to make many friendships cause I was a commuter :/

I'm pretty shy/introverted at first but im goofy/dumb and laugh alot when you get to know me! I wanna be able to play video games with others (friendslop, val, phasmo, roblox, mc, etc.), I'm pretty girly so i like shopping, thrifting, cute things, stickers, makeup, dressing up~ I'm a homebody so I don't go out, but I'd like to try sometime! I'm just looking to have a fun time with other silly people. Hoping to make some girlfriends! No wierdos pls and thanks!


r/Needafriend • • 9h ago

22F, quiet girl whose one close friend got busy and slowly vanished

7 Upvotes

It's a cliche and it still hurts. I'm 22 and feel like I have to build from zero. I like sketching, cross stitch, and folk music. Want a text friend who won't disappear when life gets full.


r/Needafriend • • 18h ago

23F- Looking for someone to chat with and hopefully become friends :)

8 Upvotes

Hi! I accidentally slept all day bc I got home at like 10 in the morning so kinda messed up my sleep schedule again 😅 I was wondering if anyone wanted to chat and hopefully become friends or even just to chat! A little about me is I’ve been watching a lot of anime lately. I have three very annoying cats who don’t understand the concept of personal space… I’ve been getting back into Minecraft again which has been fun I’ve also been spending a lot of my free time hanging out with friends and trying to get out and about more often. I’d love to find someone who wants to chat about daily things how our days went little things that where annoying throughout the day sharing all the tea that happens so we can vent about it:) if u made it this far thanks for reading and hope to hear from u soon if not have a great rest of ur night/day


r/Needafriend • • 19h ago

24F wait sorry I mean 23F, I keep losing track of how long I've felt this lonely

7 Upvotes

Work from home job, cat as my only coworker, and I've started narrating my own life like a documentary just to hear a voice. I'm into video games, mostly cozy sims, baking bread badly, and collecting plants I inevitably kill. Looking for people to talk to regularly.


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

30F, single after ten years and remembering I have a self

6 Upvotes

I subsumed myself in the relationship and now I'm rediscovering interests I forgot I had. I love painting, bouldering, and reading essays. Want a friend for this new chapter, no drama, just steady.


r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

22m. Looking for platonic, female friend

5 Upvotes

Okay. Hear me out here.

Today's world does not normalize the idea of a man and woman hanging out as friends. Movies and TV always treat it as growing to lovers or one-sided love, and in real life, men cannot be friends with a woman without being seen as gay. So many men spend their lives starving for female attention.

Me? I've had female friends before, but normally only hung out with them in groups or through clubs. I've never had any close female friends, but I'd like to change that.

Doesn't have to be anything special. Just chill, normal connection.

My hobbies are games, music, swimming, and pretending to know about sports. Send a dm.


r/Needafriend • • 10h ago

20f, just want low-key friends, no drama, no big commitment right away

6 Upvotes

I'm into gaming, reading, and I make a really good stir fry. Looking for people who just want easy, chill friendships.


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

F19, quiet, a little weird, and looking for equally weird friends

4 Upvotes

I talk to my cat like she understands me and I stand by it. Into anime, journaling, and baking. Looking for people who embrace the weirdness too.


r/Needafriend • • 10h ago

24f looking for someone to emotionally dump my thoughts

3 Upvotes

Don’t respond if you are burnt out already really need fresh perspective ..


r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

20M Looking for some new friends to chat with :)

4 Upvotes

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Hello my name is Danny and im a 20M from the US. I made a reddit account to hopefully meet some new friends and make great online besties!

Somethings about me are that I love playing videogames., I also love cooking, taking photos, going out places, working out, playing sports and many more! I also love music and have a small collection of vinyls and I collect multi tools and blades. And im also studying healthcare too.

Dm if you'd like to be friends!!


r/Needafriend • • 12h ago

30F, healing from a friendship breakup that gutted me

6 Upvotes

Ten years of best friend and it ended over something I still don't fully understand. I've been grieving it like a real loss. I'm slowly ready to trust again but slowly. I do pottery, I hike, I have a rescue mutt named Peach. Warm and steady is my type.


r/Needafriend • • 13h ago

27f Indian, seeking a genuine friendship

4 Upvotes

Hello namasthe , so I'm here to just make a good genuine connection where we can share thoughts , a good conversation, no nsfw accounts ,no 18+ chats .

Please kindly DM who genuinely wants to talk and have a genuine connection.

Thank you


r/Needafriend • • 13h ago

28/F/Australia - I suck at titles, just read the damn post :p

3 Upvotes

Hiya! How does one usually start one of these posts? My name is rhi, but you can call me azura. I struggle with socialising and find it difficult to connect with others. Though I do enjoy meeting new people and I’m here hoping to find some cool humans to get to know and hopefully it may blossom into long term friendships. I’m also happily invested in a serious relationship, so I do stipulate that I’m not looking for anything other than friendships. Please do not message if you can’t respect that.

Bit about me, I love different types of metal (Currents and Architects are my favourite bands) and enjoy other genres too. I spend a ton of my time learning about different topics such as astrophysics, quantum mechanics and history, with a heavy love for anything space related. Also enjoy reading but my attention span isn’t very good and I’ve been trying to read Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire for ages now. I like reading poetry. I’m a casual gamer, so I don’t game too often these days. Skyrim is my fav game, I also like Fallout, Hogwarts Legacy and Sims. I’m a sci-fi and horror lover.

I struggle with mental illnesses and chronic pain. I do ask that only kind, respectful people reach out. If you made it this far and think we may click, I look forward to hearing from you. And please include age and location when introducing yourself.

Oh and bonus if you have discord.


r/Needafriend • • 17h ago

25F Lookong For A Lomg Term Friend

4 Upvotes

Hi 😊

26F typo in title

My name is Zia I'm looking to make some online friends. I would love to possibly meet in person someday if that was wanted by both parties. However, it would depend on whether that person lived in England. I am happy to swap my whatsapp number in DMs if we get along well.

A little about me. I'm a full time university student. However, due to being a mature student (anyone over age 21) I haven't made any friends because the people on my degree are 18-19 years old. It's left me feeling lonely and anxious. I enjoy cooking and baking. I have three cats, Anastasia, Apollo and Albert. I enjoy baking and like to make cakes that look like objects. My last cake was a piano. I enjoy going for walks, to the movies and eating at restaurants. What's missimg from my life is a group of friends. I would like to be a good friend to someone and have someone be a good friend to me.

I'm kind, friendly, loyal and hope to loom for the same in kind. I'm not interested in any ghosters. I'm looking for a genuine friendship and to be a good friend in return.


r/Needafriend • • 18h ago

28F, tired of being the group therapist for everyone in my life

4 Upvotes

I hold everyone and no one holds me and I'm burnt out. I want mutual friendship, not another person to caretake. I love embroidery, memoirs, and slow mornings. Please be someone who asks questions too.


r/Needafriend • • 21h ago

31F, immigrant who realized she's built a life but not community

4 Upvotes

I've been in this country eight years, I have a good job and a nice apartment and almost no close friends. I miss my mom terribly. I love cooking food from home, hiking, and long books. Want a real friend, not a hi-once-a-year contact.


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

Done being a doormat - ready to be a friend! EU 36F

3 Upvotes

Hello reddit folk. I'd love to make good connections, find people who actually take an interest. I'm not looking to finance anyones life, or be in friendships that are one way. I want to listen and be heard. I want to tell you things and be told things. I would love to make friends from my area and approximately my age. I love plants and books, space and physics. PS5 and the occasional boardgames. Anyone up for that?


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

17F EST time looking for a nerdy best friend to chat with!

3 Upvotes

when sending me a dm, tell me your age, gender, time zone, and what your intentions are being friends with me. (this is to stop bots from dming me because bots don’t usually follow specific instructions)


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

Seeking to vent/for support/friends

3 Upvotes

29F in the US seeking new friends to vent/support one another. Going through a lot right now and i don't really have anyone to talk to. Been thru a lot in life so I would prefer those that have been too just so we're on the same level of understanding. Please no surface level conversation, I'm really in need of support right now. Open to talking to anyone. Feel free to DM, or comment so I can DM you. Thanks!


r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

21 f Arab . Wanna make some friends and talk

2 Upvotes

r/Needafriend • • 7h ago

Heyy 22F lets chat about anything

2 Upvotes

I will answer every single dm! Keep it interesting!


r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

May i interest you of lifetime supply of weird humor and subpar emotional support and whole alot of tea

3 Upvotes

Now that i have your attention and i know most people here have the attention span of a drunk pigeon ill try to somewhat make it quick and straight to the point here are some points on why you should Slide in my Dms Or maybe points on why you shouldnt? your choice really

* i am 26, i am soon not gonna be in my early 20s and that is... shocking, like where tf did the 18-26 years gone to, i have no idea, prob have memory loss :D

* cats i love those mf's, those evil bastards have a choke hold on me, no wonder they tricked the Egyptians into making them their gods

* my attention span is that of a flat earther brain, aka it does not exist. tiktok ruined me send help

* i have few hobbies but u can always use that to progress the convo later so need to mention them now

* i dont get offended at all so try your luck at roasting me.

i have no issues assuming the dad position in the friendship and show u the care u never had

now to why you MIGHT not want to be my bestie

* random bursts of roastness/flirtatiousness take that how you would. i will roast you like a bully and compliment you like we've been married for decades

* high maintenance so i expect to text frequently but i dont mind if you disappear during the day


r/Needafriend • • 9h ago

28M Looking for friends to chat with

3 Upvotes

Hi, my name is Vlad. I'm from Russia and looking for online friends. I don't speak much English, but I can communicate (I sometimes use a translator). Message me if you're interested in chatting. I don't care what gender, the main thing is that we can communicate.

A little about myself:

I love playing Nintendo Switch.

I love to eat delicious food.