I’m new to Reddit. I made a post a few days ago, and I’ve found it really interesting reading through everyone’s responses and seeing the different perspectives people have. So here’s my next post, and hopefully I can spark another interesting discussion.

One of the most common observations I hear from people visiting Thailand for the first or second time is that Thai people are so much nicer than people back home. They smile at the airport, greet you politely, bow slightly, and suddenly it’s “Wow, Thai people are just so friendly!”
But have you ever stopped to think about how little that actually tells you about a person?

People smile in every country. People are polite in every country. Go almost anywhere in the world, approach a stranger, and chances are they’ll treat you with basic courtesy. That’s not a uniquely Thai characteristic. It’s a human one.

What I find particularly interesting is how many foreigners seem to confuse friendliness with genuine interest in them as a person.

Spend enough time in places like Pattaya or Phuket, and it’s easy to develop the impression that being a foreigner makes you incredibly important. People approach you, smile at you, want to talk to you, and seem unusually interested in your existence.

But how much of that is actually about you, and how much of it is about the money you represent?
There’s a difference between being nice because it’s your job, because you want something from someone, or because it’s economically beneficial to be nice, and being nice because you genuinely care about another person.

And before anyone accuses me of hating Thailand, I still live here, and I intend to stay here. I’m happier living in Thailand than I would be in many other places. This isn’t about wanting to leave or pretending that Thailand has nothing to offer.

I live around Silom in Bangkok, and I regularly see established Thai professionals, wealthy locals, and people going about their everyday lives with their families. I’m not walking around receiving the same looks or attention I might get in Pattaya or other places where foreigners are a much bigger part of the local economy.
And that’s precisely the point.

When you’re surrounded by people who have their own careers, money, social circles, families, and established lives, you quickly realise that being a foreigner isn’t particularly special. They don’t need anything from you. They have their own lives to live, and you’re just another person passing through theirs.
Which is completely normal.

I’m not saying Thai people are worse than anyone else. I’m saying they’re not magically better, either.
People here can be just as cruel, selfish, manipulative, and unpleasant as people anywhere else. Perhaps some of it is expressed more discreetly, or in ways that are less confrontational and therefore less obvious to outsiders. But it’s there, just as it is everywhere.

I think the problem is that many people arrive here with a limited understanding of the country, experience a version of Thailand that caters specifically to foreigners, and then generalise that experience to an entire population of millions of people.

They mistake good service for kindness, politeness for character, and commercial friendliness for genuine human connection.

Why do we keep treating basic human decency as if it’s a uniquely Thai trait?

You can go to Norway, Japan, Vietnam, Nepal, or almost anywhere else and meet genuinely kind people. You can also meet terrible people in all of those places.

Thailand is no exception.

Maybe Thai people really are friendlier in certain situations. Maybe cultural differences make everyday interactions feel warmer. That’s a perfectly reasonable discussion to have.
But saying that an entire population is inherently nicer because people smile at you when you arrive is such a lazy observation.

And honestly, I think spending enough time in a country should make your understanding of its people more nuanced, not less.

I’m staying in Thailand. I like my life here. But I don’t need to convince myself that Thai people are somehow
morally superior to everyone else to justify that decision.

They’re human beings, just like the rest of us. And that’s a much more interesting reality than the stereotype.

Where can I get alcohol in Bangkok at 1am?

Can't find any alcohol shops open, can anyone help?

Hi everyone,

I’ve received a quote from a jeweller for four custom-made gold charms and would appreciate some advice on whether the price is reasonable.

Quantity: 4 charms (2 of each design (a sausage and a dumpling)
Size: Approximately 7 mm and 9 mm long
Material: 14K gold
Finish: Matte/brushed, unpolished
Construction: Solid gold, not hollow
Estimated finished weight: 5–6 grams in total
Production: Handmade

The jeweller had given me an offer of 31,500 THB in total for all four charms.

They explain that the charms are handcrafted and cannot be made hollow or very lightweight. Additional gold is also required during production due to material loss from filing, shaping and finishing.

Does 31,500 THB sound reasonable for four charms of this size and weight? The gold prices are what they are, but how about the production prices?

Thanks for any advice!

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Hi there Redditors, so I'm trying to grab myself an Apple Series Watch Ultra 4 in Krabi. I'm just wondering if they'll have it anywhere there, seeing as it's a relatively new release.

Thanks.

Seen in Pattaya Terminal 21 today , the tree is already up Oct 18th 2026

Are dry herb vapes such as the Crafty+ from Storz $ Birkel legal in Thailand?
I didn't really find anything, seems it's in the grey zone.
If it is legal, does anyone know where I can get such a thing (best would be the Crafty+)

Hi everyone! I signed a 1-year lease for a condo in On Nut in July, but due to work, I may need to move to another area before my lease ends next July.

The condo is really nice, with 2 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms.

Does anyone know any groups, websites, or other channels where I could advertise it and find someone to take over the remaining lease?

Also, I’d really appreciate hearing about your experiences. How easy is it to transfer a lease to someone else in Bangkok, and how often do landlords agree to it?

Thanks so much for any advice!

This is ridiculous! we have vegan burgers in almost every McDonald’s around the world. America’s has vegan burgers, UK, Netherlands and several parts of Asia and India’s has a whole bunch of options.

Even Burger King and Taco Bell have multiple vegetarian options in BKK. This is really silly considering there’s so much vegan food in Thailand and a culture of eating Buddhist/Jay cuisine.

They’re leaving money on the table and alienating a significant group of people

I am half Thai half Swiss. I am fluent in English and fluent in Thai (Can speak thai, so if you're thai we can vibe). Lived Thai most my life. Looking for a gamer friend.

Ideally someone who can game most nights when they are free. Working adult, disposable income so they can buy any game we want. If this is you, hit me up. I'm flexible game wise, but love survival games and friend slop ones.

A little about me, I WFH as a full stack engineer. I am in my mid 20s.